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Old 24th June 2006, 7:45 PM   #1
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new girl in office that no one liked but now I feel sorry for her

There is this new girl in the office that no one really liked and althought I agree with them now I feel bad for her and am willing to give her a chance.

The guys in the office always try to see who is the first to conquer any new somewhat goodlooking girl.

One of the guys who I adore as a brother was in contact with her via home e-mail and it was quite a long conversation. The next day he did not come into work and she had mentioned to everyone that he called her at 2:45 in the am, she should have kept that to herself but did not. When it got back to him he printed up the e-mail they had and showed it to pretty much everyone in our dept.

I feel so bad for her now, are men really that caddy???
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Old 24th June 2006, 11:01 PM   #2
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Sounds like *two* people to steer clear of.
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Old 25th June 2006, 9:16 PM   #3
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Men are not known to be as vicious and caddy as girls, But I'll tell ya some of them are even worse.

What did the email have in it, thats very immature of him to do..I meen all she said was that he called her at 2 in the morning, did she tell them about her conversation with him..No.

You should feel bad for her, people don't desearve their business exploited to the world especially where they work

People can just be so stupid and cruel sometimes.
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Old 25th June 2006, 9:22 PM   #4
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Men are not known to be as vicious and caddy as girls, But I'll tell ya some of them are even worse.

What did the email have in it, thats very immature of him to do..I meen all she said was that he called her at 2 in the morning, did she tell them about her conversation with him..No.

You should feel bad for her, people don't desearve their business exploited to the world especially where they work

People can just be so stupid and cruel sometimes.
it just had normal non sexual trying to get to know you conversation.
it is very very immature. People in the office felt that she threw him under the bus and it got back to him so he showed everyone the private e-mail. now when the boy's pick on her I don't fight her battles for her but just
put my 2 cents in when needed.

I would not want my private at home conversations distributed and printed
for everyone to see.
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Old 25th June 2006, 10:15 PM   #5
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glad these aren't my staff. i'd b1tch slap the both of them.
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Old 25th June 2006, 10:21 PM   #6
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glad these aren't my staff. i'd b1tch slap the both of them.
how do you know that they aren't? or that your staff is not doing the same thing. The e-mail that was passed around was done in a very private way, reguardless it is still wrong.
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Old 26th June 2006, 12:11 AM   #7
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Lol sadly I would snoop down to an even lower level, waste my time collecting thoughts and putting them down set up as an email and say It was from him.

No I probaly woulden't do that, but It is a great idea!!

You'll see!!

Just kidding

People in general sometimes suck, but if one sucks than that sucker makes the other act in a way that sucks, so you have this chain of people who suck and thats why working with people can really get on your nerves, drama is inevitable right?

Another thought on disliking her, i've come to find out that those who you dislike at first tend to show you their good traits later on, sometimes It's better that way, because people you like first, show their bad trates and later on your dissapointed
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