[foxtails_pm]

I dunno if I should break up with g/f cuz of her disorder. I think that any disorder can be cure with counseling or therapy. Based on her aunt, on once occassion she told about this thing my g/f did when she was just 4. It was that when her aunt woke, she found three 3 on the side of her bed and saw her (g/f as a kid) grinning and smiling. Then on another occasion when g/f is a bit older, like 9 years old, as her aunt was walking downstairs she caught her niece putting out her foot and with that grin again. According to her niece she say it was only a joke, that she didn't really mean to actually make her aunt trip on purpose but when the diagnose came it was "conduct disorder". I dunno that much about disorders and whether that is curable or not.

And well I been dating her already for 3 years and di notice that sometimes she will not talk that much, walk away or completely ignore me for more than an 1, like if I meant nothing, like I was an object, then otehr times she gets affectionated. Or on two occassion when she came very late when the party was over with no explanation.

Can anyone tell me how is that disorder really like. I dunno if it's even serious. Can it be curable cuz if it can then I guess I can stay with her. Or should I break up?? By the way this is my first serious relation. I only dated an out of the girls I dated, this one is somewhat not emotional.

[MarnieGirl]

she was 4 years old then.

maybe she's just a little flaky now.

no offense, but i didn't understand a lot of your post, like the '1' and the 'three 3' stuff...

[foxtails_pm]

Oh, I meant three knives, forgot to add that word. Yes I was told by her aunt that when she was 4 years old, she put three knives on the side of her bed while she was sleeping, then when the aunt woke up and saw the knives, my g/f then was smiling.

[MarnieGirl]

she could have been a total freak, or she could have been a four year old playing with knives and smiling because she knew she wasn't supposed to. who knows?

not sure what to tell you. if you like her enough, give it a shot. if you get freaked out, break up...but be prepared to get far, far away...she may be a potentially dangerous scorned woman if she she really has a problem.

[paige367]

I suggest you do some research on this "conduct disorder". I've never heard of that. Also, if you can, ask other friends and family members of your girlfriend what their experiences have been. Talk to your girlfriend herself. Does she feel she needs help? Could there be therapy or a medication that could help her? We haven't really been given enough info here.

[foxtails_pm]

Ok I just read a search on it and read about. I have an idea of what it's kinda about from this website.
http://www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/74.cfm

I got the creeps when I read about that part of the symptoms in children, like fire setting on purpose, bullying other kids, and lying, that damn. Her aunt didn't wanna proceed in telling me other stuff other than those two incident, but she say there was something more to it when she was a kid that she had to be under close supervision else you woudln't know what she was up to but it wasn't good stuff.