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Old 23rd May 2006, 10:45 AM   #1
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Alright, Last week i went to prom with this girl who asked me to go with her. I knew her for a couple months and then finally a couple weeks back i got her phone number. When I call her over the phone she wont pick up, the only way I can talk to her is if I text her. I dont know if shes scared to talk to me or what. When I first seen her for the first time since i got her number again at the prom she woudnt talk to me at all, we ate, danced, and during all of that she coudnt say a word to me. What should I do, I really like her but, I dont want to be wasting my time on one girl when thiers a whole lot more out thier. What should I do?
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Old 23rd May 2006, 12:22 PM   #2
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Not sure I understood all that. You said you've known her a few months and got her number. But she won't answer your calls. She went to prom with you and wouldn't talk to you the entire time?

Unless she turns red when you talk to her, and she's acting nervous (ie, wringing her hands, or bouncing her leg, or nervous energy, etc.) then I'd say she just isn't interested.

Does she ever contact you first? Text you first? Who asked whom to the prom? Have you seen her since the prom? If so, how did she react? Smile at all, turn away, just stand there? What were her actions saying?

Frankly, it'd probably be easier on you just to pursue someone else. Even if the girl is just extremely shy, you're going to have a lot of miscommunication and a hard time getting her to open up. Might be better if you left her alone and concentrated on finding someone a little closer to your level of maturity.
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Old 23rd May 2006, 12:24 PM   #3
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Drop her. If she can't even pick up the damn phone then she's a flake.
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