Okay, here's the deal. My boyfriend cheated. I don't know how to deal with it because he won't even admit that he cheated. He turns it back around on me. Yes, I went through he's phone and found some text messeges from a female and woke him up in the middle of the night to ask him about it. He claims that it was about nothing.What am I supposed to do? I can't believe he would do this to me and act like it's all good. When I found out, he should have just admitted it, and faced up to what he did. Do I leave him alone or try to work at it?
You can't forgive him unless you actually know what he's done, if anything. If he isn't willing to discuss this with you and tell you what's going on with the woman who is sending text messages, then all you can forgive him for is for hiding a relationship with someone else, but you don't know whether he's cheated or not.
Our relationship haven't been so good for the past couple of months and I didn't want to face the fact that he was being unfaithful, but I even called the female and I got my answers from her. I know that is horrible, but he wouldn't even talk to me. I was acting like I was crazy. Like I told him, I'm not stupid, I know he's been with someone else. I can't make him talk to me but everytime I do, he ends up making it seem like I did something wrong.
Sweets, if you know he's cheating based on what the woman said (and you believe her), and your boyfriend won't talk about it...there's no point in forgiving anything. He's not asking for your forgiveness. He's asking you to look the other way while he cheats at will.
I'm sorry, but this is tearing you up and he doesn't seem to care, and is trying to blame you. Not a match made in heaven.
Yeah you're right. I'd never thought that I would be in this situation with him, so that's why it's so hard for me. I know I either have to get over him or accept him the way he is. It's so much easier to accept him, but I know my ego won't let me. I have to get over him, but I'm so afraid!!!
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How Do I Forgive Him?????
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