[STLguy]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Times New Roman]My GF and I are both 20 and have been dating for 3 months now. She is a virgin, however sex has come up, I've told her I'd wait until she's ready, and she has told me she would start on birth control just in case. That was about a month ago, she started on the pill last week. I really don't want to seem like I'm trying to rush her, because I'm not. The relationship I have with this girl is by far the most rewarding, comfortable, open relationship I've ever had. If she told me she wanted to wait until marriage I would stay with her. I really would just like to see how she feels. It's not like she's uncomfortable with her body or intimacy or something like that, we fool around, we sleep together naked, etc. I know I'm her first serious BF, she's told me the longest relationship before me was a month. Should I try bringing it up one night? If so how would you go about doing it without looking too pushy? Should I just let her bring it up?[/FONT][/COLOR]

[phyrespryte]

I don't understand...what more is there to discuss?

She's on birth control so she isn't against the sex thing. Has she said that she wanted to wait till marriage?

If anything maybe um...I don't know how to word this. But just go with the flow? I've always thought of sex as being spontaneous. I'd feel odd if I had to discuss it and then make plans for it.

[STLguy]

I suppose you're right, I don't intend nor do I want to plan it. I guess I'm just trying to figure out how I know she's ready. I've never had to go through something like this, I always just went for it when I thought the girl was ready. I did the same thing is this girl, however she didn't reveal she was a virgin and not ready for sex until we were both naked and I was grabbing for the condoms.