[dragonfish]

I originally ported this on a different forum - which turned out to be support for women/men in relationships with married people. I was slammed. Not I want to make this same post to this forum to see if your opinions and comments are different.

I have been haunted by a situation that I saw unfolding, and did nothing about. In one of my former lives I was a waitress. I watched another waitress that I worked with go after men - one man in particular. He was married. I didn't know him that well, but he'd come into the restaurant on a regular basis. She would spend every free moment she had chatting with him. It used to drive me crazy. I would hear her talking about how great he was and that he was the man for her. She was unbelievably manipulative. She absolutely set out to get him, and I heard later through the grapevine of former workers that she was calling him her boyfriend. . . so I guess her plan worked.

He was a nice man, married, always seemed to like his wife. He'd talk about her to me. Once she came into the restaurant with him and he introduced me to her. He wasn't your everyday creep. I really hope that the waitress, Patty, didn't get him.

What should I have done? Anything? Something? I thought I'd just trust in God to sort it out, but I just don't know anymore. I'm still upset about it, and this was like 2 or 3 years ago now.