[Beatnik]

LOL so I was online about a week or so on MySpace, and I started chatting with this girl, after talking a few days she asked me out, we had agreed to meet at the theater, but she never showed, I waited around for a while and left. I get home and find this message

Hey, I'm sorry that I didn't make it tonight! I called your cell phone and left a message because no one answered! I am really sorry! Work called and needed me for a little bit! Do you forgive me? I hope so cuz I really wanted to see you! Well, let me know! I'm sorry again!

This was a little weird, seeing as I never got a call or a message, and this message was left 2 minutes AFTER she was supposed to be at the theater. So instead I went to a party and left her a message saying it was no big deal and that I went to the party. Now she did mention that recently (im not sure how recently) her boyfriend of 2.5 years cheated on her, so I'm thinking she was nervous and bailed at the last minute, also reinforced by the last message she left me.

That's good that you are okay with that! Have fun at your party but be safe! When would you like to go out? Just let me know and I will do it! I think I might go to a party too, but not sure if it's actually a party or just a get together! I don't know! Anyway, thanks for understanding! TTYS!

What do you guys think?

[cygny]

she probably is telling the truth. give her another chance. if she does something else weird, then maybe she has problems with relationships.

[gfto]

sounds awfully fishy. There's no way to know if she really had to go to work or if she was just brushing you off. My gut feeling is that it's the latter. That being said, give her the benefit of the doubt. Make a date for something like starbucks. But, if she isn't on her best behavior, it would be my first and last date with her.

[Beatnik]

Ya I was planning on giving her one more chance but if something does come up again it WILL be the last date, I don't take this kind of BS lol. Wow this is the first time I've EVER been stood up LOL

[cygny]

well she tried to contact you so i don't think you were stood up. and she said she wanted to try again. trust me if she didn't want to go out with you she wouldn't have offered again.

[Neptune]

She is flaky because any considerate person would have left you a message as soon as it was determined she would be at work and could not make it.

No harm in a second chance but I would keep the expectation low and don`t put yourself out to accomodate her.

[Weye]

I wouldn't give her the second chance. First she stands you up, then she lies about it saying that tried to call you. So now we know shes a flake and a liar. Sounds like a trouble-girl to me.

If you do decide to give her another chance, then make sure she does it on your terms. Make her make this up to you or else she'll get the impression that its OK to dis you.

[Art_Critic]

Originally Posted by Weye

I wouldn't give her the second chance.

Neither would I.

there is absolutly no reason to stand someone up.. What an assclown she is.

I can see canceling but she didn't do that.. she stood you up man.. grow a set and tell her to go pack it.. This is just a reminder to what she will be like to date for real..
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