[oss91]

My girlfriend of 6 year and I broke up 4 weeks ago. I'm not going into details as to why she wants space, but it has taken me 4 weeks to realize why and now I have sincerely apologized about it. I now know what the cause of her feelings were, and she was genuinely happy when I apologized for my mistake. The past couple of times we have seen each other have gone pretty well. She has said she wants things to work out between us. She has said "I love you", "I'm in love with you", "I am so attracted to you", "I am so into you", etc. She mentioned twice about wanting to be the mother of my children. She's talked about the engagement ring I will get her. We've made out a couple of times (might as well put that in there too). Do these seem like signs of her wanting me to assume a more prominent role in her life again? I know her feelings won't change overnight, and know she still wants a little space and some more time, but might she be thinking about a reconcilitation, or just having some doubts right now?

[CaliGuy]

Yep, but if you're smart you'll continue to focus on areas you need to improve upon and take things slow.

When a woman tells you she wants you to be the father of her children, that's a very, very powerful statement.

Be confident, happy and above all resolve to complete your self-improvement goals. She's saying all very positive things, just don't be a sap and fall into old habits. You know where you screwed up, learn from your mistakes.

[oss91]

Thanks man. I'm taking it very slowly with her right now. Getting to know her again, so to speak. The trust between us has been damaged - due to my one time mistake - and it will only get better with time and my actions. I told her that what I did was a grave error of judgment on my part, and that's not the type of man I want to be. Like is said, I am just going to take things very slowly right now with her.