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Old 5th January 2006, 8:07 AM   #1
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Angry How would you respond?

Now this is a very interesting one…
A little while back when I was in a house of a friend… I was faced with a guy my friend was dating… Now they had some bad dates before them… But what I found most annoying was that he was jokingly asking me out… And of course my answer was always negative.
Then we were speaking about people I did not know!!! And he suddenly started rating people in pictures… Then it was a picture of a person that I had heard much about yet have never seen her… The picture resembled nothing of what I had imagined, also it looked like a bad picture, u know the kind of pictures I mean!!… so I asked another friend present… This is not a very good pic, right!!! So the guy was like well she is a 6/10 like you…

I ignored him and continued with my conversation…. But I must say… I did not appreciate being rated…. And I did not understand why a person would say such a thing…
Now my question is:
Why would a person say such a thing?
What would be the best answer without sounding petty and childish?
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Old 5th January 2006, 9:08 AM   #2
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Because hes being an a$$. Yes hes acting childish, ignore it.





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Old 5th January 2006, 9:47 AM   #3
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What gives people the right? And what do they really think they can achieve from their silly behaviour? Or do they think at all?
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Old 5th January 2006, 9:53 AM   #4
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Hard to say why people act the way they do. I guess we all have the "right" to act like an a$$, but could be hes trying to come across as cool. Or a know it all. Or it could be he is just totally clueless about people, and people feelings etc. I wouldn't let it bother you nor let him get to you. Stay clear of him.





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Old 5th January 2006, 10:07 AM   #5
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Well I am sure he knew what he was doing cause he was waiting for my reaction...
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