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Old 2nd January 2006, 10:21 PM   #1
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Girl wrote about me on a blog, and refuses to take it down

Hello...

About a year and a half ago I met this girl, we started hooking up in the bedroom only on a kind of regular basis. We did this for about a month or so. When I realized I wasn't really that interested in persuing anything further, I ended it. She wasn't happy about it, as she liked me a lot, but it was over, right?

Six months later I was invited to a party and one of the links in the email was for a popular club dj in our city. Visiting his site, I saw a link that looked interesting, so I followed it to discover a blog written by this girl I had been hooking up with.

I read through some of the archives, and my jaw dropped to the floor to see photos of me that I had emailed her, along with a lot of writing about her experiences with me, how she felt, etc. Even how the sex was. Also she used my first name a lot, which is very unique, and well... I couldn't believe what I saw. There was nothing negative written, but jesus..

So I confronted her on msn about it, and she refused to do anything at first. Eventually she agreed to take down my photos. But my name and her intimate descriptions are still there. I was really upset, and she kept stroking that fire by saying horrible things to me.... She was definitely holding a grudge. Eventually I just blocked her and decided to forget about it. 'Who the cap fit, let them wear it' right?

This week I googled myself just for fun, and the fact that her blog comes up when you type my name into google really really gets to me. I'm finding it hard to let it go... and on top of that, her website is linked to from other people in the community, and I know for certain that people who know me are still likely to stumble across the site and recognize me.

Arghh. I don't get bitter easy, but I'm still bitter about this. Any suggestions of what I could do to get off her site??
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