[coasting]

My live in boyfriend of three years up and moved out six weeks ago because we had been arguing to much. On the morning of the day he left we had an argument that he claims I had said to him "if you want to live the single life there are the boxes." I have no recolection of ever saying those words to him.
However I came home from work and found a note on the table reading he was sorry it had to be this way, but it seems to be what I wanted, and he didn't know what else to do.
I later learned he moved in with a woman from the place we both work at. He says it was totally unexpected , and I tend to believe him only because half of the bigger things that belonged to him were left behind for him to pick up at a later date, because he said he could not get a truck in such short notice.So manty people have told me that there is no way this new relationship will work out because he went from one home to another.
Has anyone had any experience with this stuff if so, advice please!

[JadeStar]

You have no recolection of saying that because you probably didn't say it. It was his excuse to leave. The note on the table said "Sorry it had to be this way, but seems to be what I wanted." I assumming he meant it was what YOU wanted, if thats the case, once again, he has tried to turn things around on YOU, by saying things to didn't say/mean etc. He tells you him moving out and moving in with her was unexpected. I doubt it. Had to have been planned somewhere along the way. My guess is he told her some BS story she probably felt bad for him and took him in. Either that, or it was planned from the beginning and he made it appear it was all so unexpected. He is feeding you BS lines.




Jade

[lilmoma1973]

Probably said that so it would look like your fault that he was with someone else because "you wanted it that way" !! He said that so he wouldn't feel guilty for cheating and yes it probably won't work out cause he went from one relationship to another!! Just remember what goes around comes around and he will get his ! That women will probably hurt him and then want to come back to you!! Usually happens cause sometimes we don't know what we have till we lose them!! Good luck

[coasting]

I can say this, he will never get anyone better than me!