[Mr.P]

Well it's now been 5 - 6 months since my girlfriend finished with me. You may remember my story about her shacking up with another guy 6 days after she finished with me which as you can imagine, was just the most painful thing I have ever experienced.

Limited contact was applied, would have been full NC but she was in a bit of a mess and wanted me as a shoulder for all the wrong she has done, saying she couldn't see the forest through the trees etc etc, but she still wanted to be with the new guy (where I then turned my back on her again). I told her I didn't want to know her whilst she was seeing him, once she had finished with him I would talk to her again.

Anyway, last month she finally saw the light and dumped him, she even called me to tell me bearing in mind we hadn't spoken for ages, I was really happy now I could talk to her again (not talking to her was for my sake not hers) and a short while after we went for lunch a few times, and when I suggested maybe catching a movie that night she then assured me that she would not be dating me in the near future. She never says never but just not right now. It was a bit of a blow but I remained hopeful after that.

She was planning on having a party at a club were we are both members but the date she wanted clashed with a Christmas carols and mince pies night. This wasn't on the calendar for then but it's always been the Wednesday before Christmas when it is held. She saw her arse over that as her party would bring in much more money etc etc and I told her that it has always been the case, it's there for the enjoyment of the members and not for making money. After that she said she was going to get away from it all for a while, friends is not what we needed and she wasn't going to be around until next year.

This caught me by surprise, I text her straight after that and I didn't hear from her, I didn't hear from her at all and I didn't try and contact her (maybe give her space to clear her head). She spoke to a friend of mine on the 17th saying she was going on another adventure holiday over Christmas and wouldn't be here, I was told by him so I just sent a text saying I had just been told and wished her lots of fun and a Merry Christmas. She did text back saying she had just arrived and it was v. hot there, and a Merry Christmas x x x wish back.

Christmas Day came so I text her again with another Christmas wish, she replied saying she was having a great time, made loads of good mates and started talking about one in particular. So my suspiscion starts here.

That was playing on my mind until the day she was due back (yesterday) so I text again asking her to give me a call and tell me how it went.

She was quick to text back saying it went good and she has a new fella (what a kick in the groin) but he lives about 300 miles away, lives with 4 very pretty girls at College and she is not hopeful for any future for them. (Made it sound like it was just a holiday romance)

Last night was a sleepless night for me, couldn't sleep thinking about her. I really want her back, even after 6 months my feelings haven't changed for her and I would do do absolutely anything to get her back.

It's her birthday tomorrow and New Years Eve the day after, I'm not sure how I should approach her for both.

Any suggestions? I'm expecting the usual "Stick with NC so you can find someone else" but this doesn't work, I've met several new girls since who have shown an interest in me but I'm really not interested in them. They were nice too. There's only one girl I'd like to be with!

Thanks for reading!