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Old 1st December 2005, 6:35 PM   #1
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When the SH*t hits the Fan

Not sure if this is the place for this or not I just need to vent. I lost my divorce case she gets just about everything. Her mother payed for some high priced Lawyers Since I am near broke, could barely afford one of my own. On top of that I was in an accident and now owe the Hospital close to $1400.00 lost my job so no med insurance. I just need to vent here. I'm a good guy. Try to live a descent life and all that. I never cheated on my wife. We drifted apart and one day she says she wants a divorce and won't go into marriage counseling. Seems like right now life is taking one big dump on me. If things don't turn quick I'm going to loss everything and be homeless. My new job doesn't have Insurance and health Insurance for me is right now beyond my ability to pay. The stress right now is really doing a number on me can't sleep, stomach is in knots can't think straight and all the stress is effecting my job proformance. Not sure what to do about any of this mess.
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Old 1st December 2005, 7:01 PM   #2
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Keep pushing yourself, you have a job, make sure you keep it by working hard. This will also motivate you. Your gonna be ok. As for the stress, find some stress relievers, jogging around a park is free, good for you and relaxing, take a bath a few hours before bed and make yourself some hot cocoa. Hey when the world knocks you down you gotta get up and show it whos boss sometimes.
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Old 2nd December 2005, 6:14 AM   #3
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Man What A Bummer...that Stupid Bitch Didnt Want Any Marriage
Counseling? Seems Like A Case Of Meeting Someone New To Replace Your Sorry Ass....thats Too Bad...but Life Throws All Of Us Curve
Balls And We Have To Cope With The Dog ***** That We Step On.
Like The Other Post, Keep Your Job And Doors Will Eventually Open
So Your Life Will Get Back On Track. As For Stress, Just Wack Off
And You'll Feel Better, Screw The Jogging, You'll Just Get Tired.
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Old 2nd December 2005, 11:20 AM   #4
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So, are you saying you didn't hire a lawyer?

That's foolish.
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