A few weeks ago I met a guy I liked a lot. He asked me out for Sunday night, then during the week he asked me out again. He did not contact me Friday and Saturday which upset me. Sunday he called twice, I didn't answer. Then he emailed for me to see him that night. I wrote back that I was feeling too lazy to get out. In reality I was upset he had not contacted me all weekend.
The following two days he didn't call or email which upset me. The last I heard from him was an email he sent Wednesday afternoon asking how I was doing. I was upset that he had not asked to see me on Friday and Saturday nights and had not telephoned me in a while so I responded with a short closed end answer.
Friday and Saturday have come and gone and again he has not asked me out. Now I am feeling like if he calls to see me tomorrow night, maybe after his real dates are over, like I am second (or third?) best, I will snap and say some mean things to him. Or should I play it cool and still see him, or should I make an excuse not to see him so he gets the idea I don't like to be passed up on for the weekend. Even if he asked to see me all day Sunday I would be more ok with it, I want to spend more time with him and feel like I only see him at night on unpopular nights.
I am also starting to fear if he doesn't even call. Does this mean he was never that interested in me, or was it something I did that turned him off or what? I am feeling hurt because I thought he really liked me and I liked him a lot. We have so many things in common and have fun the times we've been together. I fear he would lose respect if I was ok with odd days of the week to see him, but now I feel like he is losing interest in me since he has not called or emailed in a while. Would I be a doormat to cater to his schedule while being stuck at home on weekends? Or is it normal in the beginning.
Should I contact him or would that look desperate after he hs not been contacting me? I feel so hurt for opening my heart and thinking this would turn into something meaningful. Do I wait it out and see him on his terms or speak up about it? I hope I didn't lose my chance with him by not having seen him the last Sundays he's asked me and the short response after which I haven't heard from him yet. What do you think is going on and what should I do?
This is going to sound pathetic, but I even got my hair and nails done in case he were to want to see me this weekend which makes me feel more rejected.
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