[jayson]

Hi, I have been dating a wonderfull women off and on for 3 years while she attended college in my home state of utah. She will be finishing school this dec. and is planning on moving back to PA. She would like me to move back with but all my family, friends and good new job is in utah. I love her very much and consider her the one. If I stay I will be in emotional ruin, If I go I will lose my job and disapoint my folks. Any advice is much appreciated.

[westernxer]

Why can't she stay?

[Walk]

I agree with western.

Maybe make a list up of all the pro's and con's of each of you moving or staying. Then weight out the benefits to each. If the only thing you would receive by moving is "her" with no promise she'd have a good job, where as if she stayed she'd have an SO with a good job and hopefully his family support.....