[Raven9595]

Where are they? And what's the problem, for women who are not looking for the entaglements of a relationship this is perfect, all the benefits and none of the hassel (IE clingy jealous guys)

Who's with me?

[westernxer]

Are you married?

[LucreziaBorgia]

Originally Posted by Raven9595

And what's the problem, for women who are not looking for the entaglements of a relationship this is perfect, all the benefits and none of the hassel (IE clingy jealous guys)

Women who go into it for these reasons are common enough. Women who continue to stay in it for these reasons are very rare. The problem comes making the transition from FWB to actually beginning to have emotions for - and wanting a future with - MM.

This was true in my situation. I just wanted to see if I could get the attention of this MM. Our friendship continued for (2) years, but in the end we both started having feelings for each other. In the beginning it was just as friends, then we cross the line, and became lovers. This on my part, was a big mistake! I am a very sincere, and honest person. I finally realized, that even though he was very unhappy in his married, unless he made the change in his life, I would be left heartbroken. I felt, if I couldn't be the only one, I will not be the other one anymore. It is not worth my feelings being hurt!

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How about having some ethics and repsecting another person's marriage? I know that is a radical concept but it makes sense. Even for the brief time I decided trying to be a player I never went near a married woman. I had a few chances but I drew the line somewhere.