[exotic_virgin]

Should u return a call if there is no message left!! What is the fine line between playing hard to get and too hard to get... So they dont lose inteest?

What is the fine line between flirting and flirting to much!!! Can I have some examples... Many thanks....

[Sloppy]

Nothing wrong with picking up the phone and saying: "Hey, saw you called, just calling back to see what's up"
If s/he is playing a game, you will find out sooner or later.
Maybe s/he just didn't have anything to say to your voicemail, maybe he just wanted to chat

[RecordProducer]

Nothing wrong with calling him (if you're female), but I would wait for him to call again. It's not playing TOO hard to get. Just normal...

If you're a guy, call her, don't play hard to get with a girl, it's a turn-off for many women (me, for example). But I assume you're a girl.

[exotic_virgin]

Hey sweet thanks for your kind response... U u dont think is anything wrong with not calling if they have not left a message then?

Where are u from?

[AlmostMarried77]

some people don't like leaving messages.. the phone rings, starts saying "please leave a message" and they hang up, thinking to call back later at a better time. Not really something to read anything into.

[konfuzd]

I don't understand why the whole phone call thing has to be so complicated. If you want to call someone, call them. The whole, "I have to wait 3 days, so I don't look too needy..." or "what will he think if I call him?".... are just mind games. Mind games stink!!!!

If you want to talk to him, go out for coffee or whatever, just do it! We are far beyond the days where men always have to do the calling, asking out etc... if you're not comfortable asking him out, maybe just say, "hi, I saw your number on my phone, sorry I missed ya..." let it go from there.