[9Lives]

I have been dating this guy for 9 months. We have sex regularly but lately I have notice that he really does not touch me and we play around but I dont think he likes to kiss me either.

He calls me everyday, he tells me he is into me. He introduces me to his friends but I dont think he is phyiscally attracted to me because I am a smaller woman than he is use to. Even during sex, he really does not touch me. Am i tripping?

[westernxer]

Maybe he's just a boring sex partner, which means you'll have to communicate more in the bedroom.

[elijahBailey]

eh? what's wrong with being a smaller woman? Did you mean he likes larger women?

When you say smaller, I suppose you're also in better shape than his ex?

[SMHappyface]

I'm not sure what you mean by "small" but I am assuming that perhaps your breasts or your vagina is small? I really doubt that your size has anything to do with his apparent attraction or disattraction to you. Not all guys are super cuddly in bed - some are more of wham bamm thank you ma'am and others are git in get off get out. It is a rareity of a guy naturally being all cuddly during sex and focusing on the foreplay. But before I'd tell him he's colder than ice, try this next time your together. Mention that you get really turned on when he kisses your neck (or something like that he does) Guys LOVE to please - maybe he's just as concerned about YOU not being attracted to HIM! Unless he's a real dog, your sex life will really improve when YOU start enjoying and letting him know you are.