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Old 19th October 2005, 8:53 PM   #1
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straight girl loves to watch lesbian threesome porn - is this normal??

Hey all, I think the subject pretty much sums up my question...and YES I'm absolutely positive I am not gay b/c I have had a sexual experience with another girl, experimentation-type, and it felt so unnatural to me, that I have no doubt in real life I most definitely prefer guys sexually and emotionally. But this porn preference of mine has thrown me for a loop - when I'm with my husband, I even have to picture the porn I've seen (lipstick lesbian threesome variety) in order to come! It doesn't bother me really, but I do question whether this is something other women like too...or if this is bizarre!

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Old 19th October 2005, 10:20 PM   #2
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See my answer in the other sex section.
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Old 4th November 2005, 7:08 PM   #3
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straight girl loves to watch lesbian threesome porn - is this normal??
Not a thing wrong with it. Relax. Enjoy. And ignore wasting_it_all.
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Old 5th November 2005, 11:24 AM   #4
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My wife use to like to watch lesbian porn it really turned her on more than the hetero stuff.

Hey when you are sexual anything goes in the imagination world.
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Old 5th November 2005, 11:31 AM   #5
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wow.....sounds good to me!! and I'd even watch it with you hahaha
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Old 5th November 2005, 11:32 AM   #6
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I've said it before and I'll say it again...Lesbian and gay porn is HOTTER than straight porn!
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Old 5th November 2005, 11:49 AM   #7
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You're normal, dear. I'm completely in love with my boyfriend, and am very attracted to him and have never wanted to be with a woman in an emotional sense, but lesbian porn turns me on, too, to the same degree it does for you.
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Old 5th November 2005, 8:43 PM   #8
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Crystalclear, your problem is that you see gay sex as abnormal and you see things as crystal-clear white or black. Well they are not. You prefer men to women, but you're not 100% straight if you fantasize about girls. If you get horny when you watch females' naked bodies and think of touching them then you're bicurious. Many women only desire other girls in a sexual way (not emotional) and that's perfectly normal.
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Old 6th November 2005, 2:55 PM   #9
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are you christian

what are you comparing normal too. normal, feed it porn reguarly will subject you to it eventually. you have opened the door too it now. and just like all hot guys, you not necsesarly would want to sleep with them. so sooner or later you most likley will be tempted by external affairs with women. The act turns you on or the language between the women. when did it start for you. why are you not bonding with your husband. maybee this is why god says men do not waste your seed. really god invinted sex to multiply, not for our pleasure, but for his. a child is made at consception and the joy is for that. that was his plan. darn, he did not know how selfish we would all become and want this joy too, or did he know this would be what we think is normal, want to experiance this joy excessivly. sexual sin is what god almighty hates most. Counter Attack, by jay carter, taking back ground to sin may help you.
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Old 6th November 2005, 4:29 PM   #10
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I'm sorry but i must be weird or something because watching girls have sex with one another in a movie does not turn me on if anything it grosses me out!!! I would rather watch naked men anyday not two men just one wooohoo !! Hot
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Old 6th November 2005, 4:57 PM   #11
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what are you comparing normal too. normal, feed it porn reguarly will subject you to it eventually. you have opened the door too it now. and just like all hot guys, you not necsesarly would want to sleep with them. so sooner or later you most likley will be tempted by external affairs with women. The act turns you on or the language between the women. when did it start for you. why are you not bonding with your husband. maybee this is why god says men do not waste your seed. really god invinted sex to multiply, not for our pleasure, but for his. a child is made at consception and the joy is for that. that was his plan. darn, he did not know how selfish we would all become and want this joy too, or did he know this would be what we think is normal, want to experiance this joy excessivly. sexual sin is what god almighty hates most. Counter Attack, by jay carter, taking back ground to sin may help you.
Wow. I didn't know that watching porn once in awhile and also having some hot fantasies will lead to external affairs! I guess someday I'll be doing 3 women at a time and maybe throw in a hot guy too!

This is your opinion, obviously you're religious and those type of thoughts never enter your head, or you won't ever allow yourself to think it. Others feel differently and what is normal to one may not be normal to the next. Either way it is not causing any harm to anybody and I have to say as well, sex is not only for making babies, it's for pleasure too! It's a way I am intimate with my husband and the love we share. To me, that's not a sin.
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Old 6th November 2005, 7:40 PM   #12
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sex is not only for making babies, it's for pleasure too! It's a way I am intimate with my husband and the love we share. To me, that's not a sin.
Nothing wrong with that. As long as it's only you and your husband that's involved.

Watching porn, or allowing any other elements outside of your marriage to alter your sexual habits with your spouse will always cause problems.

I say stay clear of it from now on. Concentrate on what it is your husband does that turns you on.....encourage him to do it more often. Experiment with him, not with outside sources.
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Old 6th November 2005, 8:01 PM   #13
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Trust me, I'm not and neither is he, in the habit of watching alot of porn. In the 13 years we've been together I can count on one hand how many times we've watched it. LOL, and I don't count the soft cheesey porn we get on regular TV late on Friday's nights...It's really stupid.
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Old 6th November 2005, 10:11 PM   #14
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I reckon lots of women are turned on by watching lesbian porn-it's sexy. That's fine in my opinion and doesnt mean a lesbian affair is likely to follow. The only time i think porn becomes a problem is when either partner starts relying on it way too much, choosing it over their partner or it has a negative impact on their sex life with their partner. ie, the man or woman who would rather masturbate to porn than make love with their partner
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