[impuls3]

alright first things first that you all should know. i love this girl with all my soul, i WANT this to work out...now the story

we met back in july and everything was going smoothly for a month... we were always playing around and talking and being together... then a month in my jealousy got the best of me... since she is a VERY flirtacious person and i had never had to deal with that before. anyways after 2 months she told me we need a break. now, heres the part that i dont get. I am there VERY often, i spend much of my week there with her. However, now when im over we bearly talk about anything and she sits on her computer for 5 or 6 hours a day and i sit around on her bed normally staring at the walls. i have talked with her many times about this and she usually manipulates the conversation into ME doing something wrong. she tells me she loves me all the time and we are still sexually active. today we were talking abit and she brought up that it will be our 3 month anniversary next week. however, if were not going out how could that have any meaning to her, ALTHOUGH, i spend so much time with her and shes still all over me alot of the time, not to much has changed since we were going out... im sooo confused and i really dont understand whats going on at all. alot of the time she'll seemingly avoid me, but she just says "thats what she does" whatever thats supposed to mean. i talked to alot of my friends and they all think i should get rid of her. but i really do love her and i have tried everything to make it like how it used to be. i guess im dwelling on the past but i REALLY want this to work out. so my question is does anyone have any point of views im not seeing? or am i just seeing what i want to see and really the war is just in my head. please help me!