I'm having a lot of fun in life these days; juggling school, work (2 part time jobs) and a healthy social life. But the fact that I'm 22 and getting older every day weighs on my mind. I'm not sure if I'm just completely irrational or what, but it bothers me sometimes. I've dated before- I've had three short term boyfriends. Right now I am close with many guys- JUST as friends, since they're all eventually getting arranged marriages. So technically, there's no male void in my life. My best friend is a guy, and I have a fair amount of "best" friends (guys and girls) that I spend most of my time with.
I'm very shy around new people, so that doesnt help. Also, my actions speak differently than my words. When I go out all my attention is on my friends, and we dont really do activities that are conducive to meeting new people...except for clubbing.
Therefore...is it worrisome that I haven't made much of an effort to attract guys to me in any way? Should I get on this right away, before I start aging and looking like a grandma? I figure I will eventually put myself out on the market but I don't think I'll be in the mood for another year or so (too many other things going on). 23 with no prospects in sight?
At what age do women start to go downhill *fast*? Right now I look young for my age but I hope I won't deteriorate much in my twenties.
Put my fears to rest or something
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