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Old 10th October 2005, 10:03 PM   #1
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it has been 3 weeks apart from my ex-gf and we have seen each other a few times and last Sat. night I had a party and her and a friend came over, she stayed and I so much wanted to be intimate with her and then the next morning she said there might be a chance to get back together but not right now and she does not have the same feelings that I have, at least not right now. Should I try and be friends knowing that she doesnt feel that way and I do? I get angry with myself bc of it. She said she has not been sleeping, grades are droping, and she has been drinking a lot. We went to the club and she said when we get get back to my house we would be intimate and then she just changed her mind, I was hurt by that. We are supposed to do something this thursday, what should I do. I want more than what she wants. I hate being alone. She said she has been lonley too, what should I do? Also when she is deunk she say she wants to see me, but not when she is sober, she asked me once when she was sober but that is it. Should I find someone else or wait for her to figure out what she wants?

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Old 11th October 2005, 6:24 PM   #2
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Don't try to be friends. Move on. 'Not right now' could go on and on until it's 'never'.
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Old 11th October 2005, 6:42 PM   #3
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