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Old 26th September 2005, 8:55 PM   #1
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I have "dated" a girl and i enjoyed it and sometimes i didnt. I was never able to have an orgasm and i thought it was because i wasnt enjoying sex with men but it doesnt matter either way. i see woman and think to myself that i wouldnt mind if she tried to talk to me. I also find myself flirting with certain woman that i am talking to. i feel like i should have a label. how do i know whether or not i am bi? what are the tell-tale signs?
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Old 26th September 2005, 9:18 PM   #2
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Here are some of mine:

When I see a fine woman walk by, I'm checking her out.

When I watch porn, there is no dick in it. I get (and enjoy) plenty IRL. Watching women together is a huge turnon for me.

I think what makes the difference between 'curious' and 'bi' for me is this:

I flirt with women. I am attracted to them. I want to taste them. I get emotional attachements to them just like I do men (though admittedly I see women more as sex objects and don't really form 'friendships' with women as easily as I do with men).
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Old 27th September 2005, 8:37 PM   #3
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Here are some of mine:

I flirt with women. I am attracted to them. I want to taste them. I get emotional attachements to them just like I do men (though admittedly I see women more as sex objects and don't really form 'friendships' with women as easily as I do with men).
I am getting a hard on right now. Pls post pix, kthx.
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Old 3rd October 2005, 10:17 PM   #4
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Deep down everybody is bi

Deep down everybody is bi wethar they admit or not
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Old 4th October 2005, 12:16 AM   #5
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Maybe, maybe not. Curosity doesn't mean bi-sexual. Bi-sexual is someone who is attracted to both men and women. A man or a woman who has afew sexual experiences with the same sex doesn't make them bi. I guess it all depends on each person and how they feel as an individual.
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Old 4th October 2005, 3:54 AM   #6
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i really dont know if everyone is bi, but recently I started to have strange feelings towards other guys.
it makes me really confused. im your typical indian guy, really into cars, do like girls. i have always had a secret artistic side, really love photography and the way you can capture moments.
im not going to say anything to my friends, but I do wish I could.
i recently got into browsing this site and i like reading about how others feel.
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Old 4th October 2005, 4:21 AM   #7
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If you think you would be able to be in a relationship and love a woman then you're bi-sexual. If you only want sexual things with them and wouldn't care if they are in love with you then you're bicurious... which makes most men female-curious cuz they only want sex with them.
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Old 4th October 2005, 6:24 AM   #8
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Deep down everybody is bi wethar they admit or not
That is a naive comment. That's like saying deep down everybody is vegetarian, or deep down everybody is attracted to their brother or sister, etc. Too big of a general statement that simply does not pertain to everybody.

If 20% of the population is bi, I doubt the remaining 80% is but they don't want to admit it! I don't think billions of people are cowards and/or dishonest with themselves and everybody else not to admit to something so trivial as to the gender of their sexual preference. Maybe a few million (including everyone you know?), but not the entire human population.
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Old 5th October 2005, 6:47 PM   #9
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I may have to go ahead and say that i am bi-sexual.. My attraction is beyond sex. Even though when i recenty saw and hungout with my "ex". I wanted to do nothing but comsume her in every way possible. But that coulld be because i love and have loved her for 2 years. Who knows? I am going out to lesbian parties and stuff to see if i like the attraction that women may have to me and vice versa. It's a pretty fun time if i must say so myself. There are some beautiful women out there that have more to offer me than sex (though i am not completely opposed to that). Time can only tell. But everyones response helped. And there is a part of me that thinks that the majority of people living are bi-sexual.
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Old 6th October 2005, 7:13 PM   #10
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That is a naive comment. That's like saying deep down everybody is vegetarian, or deep down everybody is attracted to their brother or sister, etc. Too big of a general statement that simply does not pertain to everybody.

If 20% of the population is bi, I doubt the remaining 80% is but they don't want to admit it! I don't think billions of people are cowards and/or dishonest with themselves and everybody else not to admit to something so trivial as to the gender of their sexual preference. Maybe a few million (including everyone you know?), but not the entire human population.
HotCaliGirl do you even have an idea what i am talking about do you studdy or what? one maybe not like to sleep with same gender but you can always say which one is good looking. so there is a bit of homo in everyone
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Old 6th October 2005, 11:57 PM   #11
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one maybe not like to sleep with same gender but you can always say which one is good looking. so there is a bit of homo in everyone
To see and appreciate a good looking man or a beautiful woman doesn't make abit of homo in everyone.
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Old 7th October 2005, 1:59 AM   #12
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HotCaliGirl do you even have an idea what i am talking about do you studdy or what? one maybe not like to sleep with same gender but you can always say which one is good looking. so there is a bit of homo in everyone
According to your logic (or lack of it), if someone thinks a child is good looking, they are a pedophile and if someone thinks their dog looks good, they are a bestialitist. If a happily married man who thinks it would be unthinkable and gross were he to ever have sex with another man since he is never sexually aroused or attracted to them physically, now and then will see a man he considers handsome or good looking (like Brad Pitt or his boss or brother or whoever), according to you he is bisexual. And if a woman thinks her female friend, cousin or housekeeper is good looking, even though she has a boyfriend and has never been sexually attracted to or would ever want to have sex with another female, you would say she must be bisexual and just isn't admitting it! ok...
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Old 7th October 2005, 7:38 AM   #13
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im wondering, like yo bro whats up.
but seriously peeps. whats it like to do anal? Ii really want to try but I dont know any guys that would. any hindus out there
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Old 7th October 2005, 1:43 PM   #14
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Maybe buy yourself a viberator and some lube. Try some anal on your own to see if you like it...Then go and try the real thing.
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Old 7th October 2005, 1:46 PM   #15
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Being curious is one thing. Acting on that curiousity is another.
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