[Candy Cane]

I feel so much resentment toward my ex even though he's so nice when he tells me that he doesn't feel any desire to date me but just wants to hang out and be friends. Oh...and if he had wanted to be more than friends, he would have made that abundantly clear. He thinks I want to marry him or even be with him...but I don't. I just don't understand how he can not have feelings for me after all we went through together. It baffles me.

He says, "I care, and I never meant to hurt you, and when we were intimate...it was just something that happened." And I'm supposed to be okay with that? How am I supposed to be okay with that? What do I say to that?

[upsetnhurt]

I am sure he did not feel that way while both of you were together and intimate for that matter. There was much care I believe and you should know that. He has made a decision to move on towards a different direction than you and has convinced himself of his current mindset. Wouldn't you expect it given his current treatment of you? It would be worse if he would show you any care/affection as it would only give you hope Candy.

I have read lots of your posts on other threads and I have been provided much comfort from your input to others. Listen to your own advice and don't let it get to you so so much. Life goes on and there are many fish in the sea and there certainly is someone out there to give you what you deserve....and that is lots!

[Candy Cane]

Originally Posted by upsetnhurt

I am sure he did not feel that way while both of you were together and intimate for that matter. There was much care I believe and you should know that. He has made a decision to move on towards a different direction than you and has convinced himself of his current mindset. Wouldn't you expect it given his current treatment of you? It would be worse if he would show you any care/affection as it would only give you hope Candy.

I have read lots of your posts on other threads and I have been provided much comfort from your input to others. Listen to your own advice and don't let it get to you so so much. Life goes on and there are many fish in the sea and there certainly is someone out there to give you what you deserve....and that is lots!

Why do you think there was much care and why should I know that? The whole incident didn't happen that long ago. He said it was something that just happened. That doesn't imply much care.

And hope? I hope to never feel used again.