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Old 26th May 1999, 4:08 PM   #1
Bouchra
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Help us to find a solution !!!

My name is Bouchra and i'm moroccan girl in love with a german boy, we decided to marry, unfortunately we meet a lot of problems: with my family who doesn't accept easily, and with money 'cause we are both students(he came to morocco for his 'doctorat' researches in geology).

so we need money for our papers(translation to arabic and german...), and for our wedding(my family will not let me go with him untill we make a wedding), we can not tell them that we haven't got money, they will separe us.

I grew up having all the things i wanted, that's why my parents want to be sure that Ralfy has enough money to make me happy, what they don't know is that i can't imagin my life without him...

Now, we need money, we don't know what to do, we tried to sell Ralf's computer in vain, i found someone via internet looking for a translator(french-english) but after a lot of translations, he faded and never sent me my fees...

What shall we do then ???
 
Old 4th June 1999, 3:39 AM   #2
Austin Reed
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Re: Help us to find a solution !!!

Wait till you finish school. marriage is a big step and does not need the pressure of school and money problems on it. This will also be grounds for you to get your parents to warm up to the idea. Trust me, you do not want to be over worked and hard up for money early in your marriage.
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My name is Bouchra and i'm moroccan girl in love with a german boy, we decided to marry, unfortunately we meet a lot of problems: with my family who doesn't accept easily, and with money 'cause we are both students(he came to morocco for his 'doctorat' researches in geology). so we need money for our papers(translation to arabic and german...), and for our wedding(my family will not let me go with him untill we make a wedding), we can not tell them that we haven't got money, they will separe us. I grew up having all the things i wanted, that's why my parents want to be sure that Ralfy has enough money to make me happy, what they don't know is that i can't imagin my life without him...

Now, we need money, we don't know what to do, we tried to sell Ralf's computer in vain, i found someone via internet looking for a translator(french-english) but after a lot of translations, he faded and never sent me my fees... What shall we do then ???
 
 

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