[Barby]

Okay seriously I am starting this thread for a few different reasons (NOT to start a "morality" war, or for anyone to make judgements).....one of my reasons is because of the more frequent types of posts we read here in this forum are about the OW waiting/wanting/wondering about if in fact her MM will finally leave, stay gone/return home, ect, ect in order to "valildate" or take their relationship to the next level.


Now clearly there are other types posts from the OW being happy w/ the relationship the way it is....(ie accepting their place in MM's life, ect) who post for various reasons.


For me, either way.............it's one's personal choice what relationship or person they choose to get involved with so in asking what I'm about to ask, I hope that it is clear that by no means am I lacking in respect for the OW in this forum or those who will be willing to respond to thid this thread.


Okay so the question.........as stated in the title..........

Those OW who are expecting/waiting for their MM to leave his W/SO who've have given deadlines or who've just been waiting for them to make their move, ect...........

1) did you begin your relationship with your MM knowing they were in another relationship?

2) did he tell you out-right that he planned to leave his wife (even if you asked him what his intentions were w/you & her)---or---was his leaving something brought up between the two of you later on throughout your relationship?

3) Or did it get to the point of you not being able to handle being the "OW" anymore and ask him to make a decision?


All replies welcome...........thanks in advance!