[aklost101]

i originally started a thread 'intentional visit by wife' to ask about whether MM's W coming to my workplace (a store) was incidental or purposeful. that was the first time i saw her in my store. today she came in again. after the first post, the majority of responses concluded she was there to check me out. ... this time i'm wondering if she would bring along her child if she were there to catch a glimpse of me or whatever. any opinions?

[Jayhawks]

She was still there to check you out and she thought it would seem less stalkish by bringing her child.

[Barby]

I didn't read your original thread so I don't know the whole situation, however it does seem like if she never came in the store before, then all of a sudden began to.....then came in again w/her child then yeah she is more than likely checking you out
and like the last poster said.......it seems less "planned if she brings her child along.

[RecordProducer]

Did she have any possibility to find out about you? Do you live in a very small town? Did she look at you at all? Did she buy anything from you?

[whichwayisup]

I agree with the others, she was checking you out...But also, she was letting you know that "their child" is a factor in the equation, to pull on your heart strings to show you "the family."

Just my 2 cents.

[Art_Critic]

I'm gonna throw my nickle in as well .. Since there is safety in numbers

I agree that she was checking ya out again. and I also agree that the child was a warning.. Kinda like if you have any decency leave us alone kinda thing.

Well how do you feel about it ?

[aklost101]

i see it's a unanimous decision that she is there to see me. argh

of course i don't feel good about it. i never have. especially not since i found out he was hiding his wife and children from me. i stay nonetheless. sounds pretty common on this site. i must say that i don't want him to leave her for me, though i have made a few jokes about it. i do fear that one day she will set my car on fire. i would like to stop the affair w/ him, remain freinds and meet his wife. i think we'd get along famously.

wwiu: it probably worked too b/c seeing her a 2nd time jsut about knocked my socks off- i was so surprised to look up and see her that i had trouble finishing my sentance to my coworker. MM has shown me photos of the kids, but that doesn't always do justice.

rp: there's always possibility of finding out, so possibly? lol umm MM isn't exactly private about us. he's introduced me to his friends (who know he's married) we've run into his friend's wife and kids while at a show. etc etc so yes, it's likely. but how she found where i work is what gets me. we live in a suburban area of linking communities of a small city (large enough to be classified as a city, but not really "urban") yes she glanced at me a few times. but she stayed in another department and bought things from them. didn't come to my dept.


thanks for all the input!!