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Old 23rd August 2005, 2:44 PM   #1
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Do white men find black women sexually attractive?

Hi! I am an African American female who is very attracted to white men for one reason or another. To me they just seem more passionate in and out of bed.

Do white men find black women sexually attractive, enough to have relationships with them? Are black women viewed as being too masculine, and why? Does the media have anything to do with it? For one thing I notied magazines like Maxim rarely depict black women as being sexy, but there are plenty of latinas and maybe an Asian woman. I've heard people say that black women have high levels of testosterone, which I find very strange.

I've also heard white men say they are afraid to approach black women. I think one problem is society. It is okay for black men to date white,latino,asian, and even hindu women, but heaven forbid a black woman date a white men. I see this in my family. I got in trouble with a parent for dating a white man, but I've never heard anyone complain of my uncle who only dates white women.

What do you think?
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Old 23rd August 2005, 3:07 PM   #2
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I think it's all a matter of PERSONAL preference.

Not everyone likes the same thing REGARDLESS of race and/or gender.

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Old 10th September 2005, 4:19 PM   #3
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im a 14 year old white gurl...
im suprised that ur uncle is into white woman and u r into white men..
i am not racist but in england where i live, alot if ALL of the black men steretype white woman and use them...
and yes i have heard that black woman have attitutes...so maybe white men don't want to approach u..
but i agree with the 1st person who posted in...it is everybody for themselves..
if u like black white asian latino ...whatever..
u no mostpeople like who they like. and dont limit themselves to one race because its just stupid and sad...
u just have to find the guy u like and if they dont like u bcos ur black...
let them be steretyped and narrow minded..
Thats the way i see it.
 
Old 23rd August 2005, 3:28 PM   #4
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I think it's all a matter of PERSONAL preference.

I agree with Merin....its a matter of personal taste and likes.

Personally, I like all types of women. But I am partial to white and latino....

but in my book....every woman is attractive in there own way....wether its a smile, or thier motherhood style (like merin ) or their humor or even the shape of her elbow ...

But I also think that society has a stigma on what is acceptable and not acceptable, why I dont know.... Lately I have noticed alot of black men with white SO's but I rarely see a black woman and white man...and I see ALOT of white men with latino women...


I dunno....white, black, red, blue....you women still are hard to handle....34 years old and I still dont understand you guys.. ..prolly never will
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Old 23rd August 2005, 3:29 PM   #5
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Re: Do white men find black women sexually attractive?

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Originally posted by honeybunch2k5
What do you think?
I think that african-american women have a tough time in the dating pool in general, no matter who they are attracted to.
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Old 23rd August 2005, 3:59 PM   #6
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Hell yes black women are sexy, of course that statement is tampered by a few things that I've always looked for in all women.

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Old 23rd August 2005, 4:17 PM   #7
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Re: Do white men find black women sexually attractive?

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Do white men find black women sexually attractive, enough to have relationships with them?
This white guy does! I've never had the opportunity to have any kind of relationship with a black woman but wouldn't hesitate if the chemistry was there and I (and she) were single.

Regarding any group of people being a certain way, eg. more passionate or more testosterone, etc. that is most likely an old wives tale that wouldn't stand up to legitimate scientific scrutiny. Independent thought is painful for some people that's why they put other people into groups (so they don't have to think.)
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Old 23rd August 2005, 4:25 PM   #8
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Re: Re: Do white men find black women sexually attractive?

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I think that african-american women have a tough time in the dating pool in general, no matter who they are attracted to.
i agree with alphamale here. in every race you can see, theres alot of stupid girls out there who make the rest look bad. but with black women, the bad ones are portrayed heavily in the media - such as in music videos, movies, music, news, etc.

i try very hard not to be racist, but man, some black chicks i've come across have just been downright ghetto. i dont have many black female friends, but the little that I do, i dont get along with as well, many of them seem very very strong in opinion, well for the most part just strong in nature. perhaps too aggressive? i can get along well with every race/nationality, more specifically with guys, but black girls for some reason, i cant deal with.

maybe they are too cool for me. who knows. im the girl who is afraid to tan for gosh sake.
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Old 18th September 2005, 8:03 AM   #9
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Why is it different?

Why is it different when Black women are outspoken
and college educated it is looked upon as ghetto? I am
a black woman who has a four year degree plus some
units towards my Masters degree with an 3.8 gpa.

Now I have been told that I am pretty by men of ALL
races. White women STARTED THE HAIR WEAVING
business. Look it up in the hair history books! My hair
is naturally curly medium length. Why is it people have
to ask me is that your hair? I have NEWS for you!!!

Britney Spears, and Jessica Simpson wear HAIR WEAVES!!!

But do you ever hear white or black comics making
jokes about them wearing fake hair?!

Britney is WHITE TRASH why you are so dead set on
believing that Black women are ghetto. I am from a middle
class background. My mother who is of a mixed background
worked for a major university and my beautiful black
father served in the military for 22 years plus college
educated made sure that my brother and I lived in
nice homes. I took piano. My brother played the guitar and
was involved in many other activities.

The media DOES play a major role in how we perceive
beauty!!! Commercials will make sure they get the
cream of the crop white woman to advertise their hair
products. You will never see a Beth Midler type of white
woman making a commercial for prime time!!!

So women like Janet Jackson and Gabrielle Union are
found daily. The white media is always telling us
what and how to look!!!!! But in Psalm 139

GOD says that I am fearfully and wonderfully made!!!!
So yes in my community you will see Jada Pinkett Smith,
Halle Berry, Janet Jackson, Gabrielle Union,Vanessa Williams,Jill Scott, Vivica A. Fox, Alicia Keys, Kelly,
Michelle, Beyonce, Serena Williams, Tyra Banks,
Eva,Queen Latifah,Kimberly Elise,and Angela Basset
are COMMON in our areas!!!!

So again the white media will never use a Sandra
Bernhardt type to advertise for their shampoo!! Believe
that!! So just like the white media uses the cream of
the crop white women use cream of the crop black women!

A black woman who is strong and confident is either considered
cocky, ghetto, or the b name!

A white woman who is strong and confident she is
just considered confident!!!!! So

THINK ABOUT THAT!!!!!! This is coming from a black woman who is usually asked out by White,East Indian,
and Hispanic men because my natural tan they find
attractive!!!!!!!!

Remeber GOD'S word!!!! I have LOVE for all of you!!!!
 
Old 20th September 2005, 7:17 AM   #10
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i am white and am attracted to black women, im attracted to any if they look good to me they look good. the thing about black women having 'attitude'....i hear that all the time and a lot of black guys dont date black women now because they 'have attitudes'. black women are extremely strong and dont take any bull from anyone, thats one reason i find them appealing. the media definitely has a lot to do with perception of what is 'attractive'......you mainly see these skinny white girls (paris hilton) being touted as beautiful. to me a woman who has curves is whats sexy. black , latina, arab, indian women have CURVES and ASSES. im born & raised in a predominantly black neighborhood and am sure glad of it
 
Old 3rd October 2005, 4:44 PM   #11
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Honeyglo
Why is it different when Black women are outspoken
and college educated it is looked upon as ghetto? I am
a black woman who has a four year degree plus some
units towards my Masters degree with an 3.8 gpa.

Now I have been told that I am pretty by men of ALL
races. White women STARTED THE HAIR WEAVING
business. Look it up in the hair history books! My hair
is naturally curly medium length. Why is it people have
to ask me is that your hair? I have NEWS for you!!!

Britney Spears, and Jessica Simpson wear HAIR WEAVES!!!

But do you ever hear white or black comics making
jokes about them wearing fake hair?!

Britney is WHITE TRASH why you are so dead set on
believing that Black women are ghetto. I am from a middle
class background. My mother who is of a mixed background
worked for a major university and my beautiful black
father served in the military for 22 years plus college
educated made sure that my brother and I lived in
nice homes. I took piano. My brother played the guitar and
was involved in many other activities.

The media DOES play a major role in how we perceive
beauty!!! Commercials will make sure they get the
cream of the crop white woman to advertise their hair
products. You will never see a Beth Midler type of white
woman making a commercial for prime time!!!

So women like Janet Jackson and Gabrielle Union are
found daily. The white media is always telling us
what and how to look!!!!! But in Psalm 139

GOD says that I am fearfully and wonderfully made!!!!
So yes in my community you will see Jada Pinkett Smith,
Halle Berry, Janet Jackson, Gabrielle Union,Vanessa Williams,Jill Scott, Vivica A. Fox, Alicia Keys, Kelly,
Michelle, Beyonce, Serena Williams, Tyra Banks,
Eva,Queen Latifah,Kimberly Elise,and Angela Basset
are COMMON in our areas!!!!

So again the white media will never use a Sandra
Bernhardt type to advertise for their shampoo!! Believe
that!! So just like the white media uses the cream of
the crop white women use cream of the crop black women!

A black woman who is strong and confident is either considered
cocky, ghetto, or the b name!

A white woman who is strong and confident she is
just considered confident!!!!! So

THINK ABOUT THAT!!!!!! This is coming from a black woman who is usually asked out by White,East Indian,
and Hispanic men because my natural tan they find
attractive!!!!!!!!

Remeber GOD'S word!!!! I have LOVE for all of you!!!!
Can I just say I'm feel like you just read my mind. I'm have pretty much the same back ground as you and I'm in Michigan and white men here are into blk women, I can speak for the rest of America. Oh, don't feel bad because Latin women are stereo type as sluts.
 
Old 23rd August 2005, 5:01 PM   #12
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Halley Berry.....enough said!!!
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Old 23rd September 2005, 7:39 PM   #13
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i thought she was half white?
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Old 23rd September 2005, 7:41 PM   #14
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isn't halley half white? just wondering
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Old 23rd August 2005, 5:09 PM   #15
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what a joke

Quote:
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Halley Berry.....
she does not even look anything like the average black woman in america...
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