[Tantrumboy]

Hey guys, just in a mood to rant.
Well there is this girl in the same class as me, attractive, wild and a flirt of gigantic proportions.
Anyway, we had been flirting for quite some time now and she has told me i am hot and everything. Anyway this one day during class she is like, u shld take me to eat i am hungry, anyway during the class that thing just fizzled out and we all went home. So the same day after abt 4 hrs, i text her asking to go get sumthing to eat, but she replied saying , sorry not tonight, i am hanging with friends right now.
thats it i never texted back, but the whole thing hit me like bricks, i cant help thinking i was shot down.
just to say that things never go as planned and beware of flirts, u can never take what they say at face value, NEVER !!

[JS17]

um. maybe she was just busy that night.

[Rosalind]

My intent is not to minimize your pain, but geez dude - RELAX.

This is one isolated incident - it's not like it's always happening.

I think the problem is : while at school you both didn't really make it a concrete plan.

So 4 hours go by, and by that time she's busy doing other stuff.

There's lots of flirting and goofing around happening - but no real communication.

[J dub]

Yeah four hours is PLENTY of time to make alternative plans if you didnt jump at the chance to take her out. She probably figured you didnt want to when you didnt ask her when she threw the bait out.

Generally it only takes me about...oh, say 4 mins to make plans?

[laRubiaBonita]

well maybe she is also a Game player, and since you did not respond to her demand for you to take her out to lunch, then she feels to even up the score, she will deny you her presence.

she sounds pretty high maintenance, yuck!

[Mr.positive]

Originally posted by JS17
um. maybe she was just busy that night.

Thats it