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What sorts of things are you noticing that he's doing (or not doing)?
Here are some basics:
* secretiveness about phone, email, etc. when it wasn't a problem before
* a new "friend" he brings up more often, and when asked insists "she is just a friend" when asked why he needs to spend time with her helping her with stuff, or 'listening to her problems'
* acts different than usual - distant, irritable, silent, picks fights, fault finding
* sudden interest in physical appearance - from grooming to body image, (starts to fix up like he did when you and he were first together)
* time unaccounted for - a trip to the store takes three hours, stuff like that
* goes in to work really early, or stays really late for no apparent reason
* the sex changes - either it dries up, or becomes 'overdone'
* lying or being vague when accounting for missing time
* needing "time to himself" or "space" or needing a "break"
* accuses you of cheating for no reason
... and so on.
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