[titicaka21]

Well I definately need some help with this one. Let me say this is not a 'coping' issue. I dated a girl now referred to as 'jenius', lets see we have been broken up for 5 months. To make a long story short...I paid for a trip to the superbowl for her, cause shes broke off her ass and 2 weeks later she slept with another guy because she wasnt 'feeling loved' so 2 weeks after this all went down she comes back to me and tells me she wants to be with me, and this new guy is short and impatient with other people so she sees him doing that to her. hes a stalker, a creep and a douchebag from what i know of him. Thats what i got broken off for, and she lied to me and to my friends, did it on the phone after 2 years....actually left a voice mail. My 2 friends at the time tim and denise (who were dating had my back, told me i would be better off. Tim and I share hockey seats at a local minor league venue. Well about a month after me and this "jenius" broke it off he broke it off with denise. Well actually denise dumped him. She did it the right way, and didnt sting him along. I know he is hurt because he really like her. He and jenius work together in another office, and me and denise work together. He i thought was tight, and told me that I am doing the right thing by not dating her again, he said he dispised her and sees right through her. Well after hockey season, i am working 70 hours a week and busy. I have tried to email him invite him to things and he doesnt respond the way he used to. Now there was a staff meeting at work, I didnt go because I had a doctor appt. People told me tim & jenius are best friends it seems like. They are over the top friends.....like it wasnt abnoxious but you could tell something was going on. My question is, do i confront tim about this, and ask him why he would befriend someone who would run him under the train tracks at the first sign that she could help herself out, and not hang out with me, someone who dropped what he was doing to go fix his computer one night back in may. The jenius is a master manipulator, and I think she has turned a good friend against me, because shes ruthless and vindictive. Do i confront tim, do i ask him whats going on. when do i get to a point and say, l cant sit next to someone at a hockey game who can be friends with someone who would completely dick me over like that and lie to everyone. I really need advice on what i should do next.....