[crrogers]

I have been dating a guy for approximately 2 months. We see each other approximately once/week. He is very depressed because he has recently taken a cut in pay and is consequently barely solvent. When I went to his house the other night, he was very tired and almost dozing off. About 12 AM I received a call saying my mom had just slipped into a coma and her prognosis was guarded. Although half asleep, he heard this call come in. When I heard the news, I went numb. He briefly woke from his sleep, rubbed my leg for approximately 5 secs and said something like "It will be ok." and returned to sleep. I kept on receiving calls from the hospital as my mother's condition was updated. At most he woke once more and said "It will be ok" and went back to sleep.

I left to fly home ASAP and received a call from him the next day saying "I am sorry I wasn't there for you; I was just so wiped out." He promised to call me the next day about my mom (before I went to bed) but fell asleep again.

Is this break up worthy in your opinion? Does the apology mitigate what he did?