[StanleyKnife]

Been with girlfriend for 5 years (on and off) and everything has been going smooth until a week ago she tells me she's not happy. We had a chat and decided one of the reasons might be that we dont really do much together, and since we see eachother 6 times / week its hard to fill all that time but we're doing our best. Things got better for a day or so then I confronted her because I was getting mixed signals and she confessed she still wasnt happy and didnt know why. We decided to have a break from seeing eachother until she was ready to decide what she wanted, but the next day she was round my house in floods of tears saying how she wanted things to go back to how they were but doesnt understand what's wrong. She confessed she still loves me but feels like im more of a very important friend than a boyfriend at the moment but she wants it to go back to the way it was but doesnt know how. This has completely baffled me and im curious if anyone else has had a similar experience and knows what I can do to revive our old chemistry which I still feel but she clearly doesnt. Could this be a phase due to hormones (we're both still under 20), or is it the signs of a doomed relationship. Im not really happy with our current state: Seeing eachother as boyfriend/girlfriend but acting like best friends, because im still very attracted to her and am pretty affectionate at the worst of times. Any advice or similar experiences would help.

[Cwazydude]

I had the exact same problem a loooooooong time ago. See, We went to school together but we were both so busy we didn't do much more then hang out.

But eventually we both made more time for each-other and I devoted myself to surprising her. It worked like a charm. Just think of things she might like to do, and then do them.