Originally posted by Star Gazer
NO, MOST women do not. They want a strong man, not an *********.
Gay men, on the other hand, quite literally love a man's *********...so if that's the sort of lovin' you're going for...
good one star.. lololol
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Originally posted by DacaInaru
hmmm.. so a woman is disposable.. was your mama disposable too?
Yes my mother is. I respect my mother for giving borth to me but that is where it stops. My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself.
Originally posted by Woggle
Yes my mother is. I respect my mother for giving borth to me but that is where it stops. My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself.
ahhhhhh woggle.. now I understand where your anger and bitterness comes from.. sorry about the fact that your mother wasn't a part of your life.. thank goodness your dad was there for you..
its suggested that most relationships issues people have stem from there relationship with there parents.
Originally posted by DacaInaru
ahhhhhh woggle.. now I understand where your anger and bitterness comes from.. sorry about the fact that your mother wasn't a part of your life.. thank goodness your dad was there for you..
its suggested that most relationships issues people have stem from there relationship with there parents.
It's not just my mother. I have yet to have a single woman in my life that hasn't betrayed me in some way or the other. I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself.
Originally posted by Woggle
Yes my mother is. I respect my mother for giving borth to me but that is where it stops. My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself.
Well G Golly Jeally beans, now I get it! I was worried for a minute. Don't let other woman pay for what you're mother did. I give you my blessings because it is very hard to grow up without either parent. But things do make more sense now since you revealed this little secret.
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Just because his mother wasn't around, that doesn't excuse woggle's attitude towards women.
I sincerely hope that one day, types like this find themselves in a position where their very lives depend on a woman. And whoever she turns out to be, she is as bitter and disrespectful to men as they are to women.
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I always say there are exceptions and that is why I say that if what I say does not apply to a woman she should not take offense because I am not talking about her.
But you talk about women broadly - you categorize them. Single moms are this way, women without children are another way, etc. From one experience here and there, you label. That's not fair, and you're never going to be happy if you continue to believe your own labels (all of which are negative, BTW).
But after reading about your mother, I'm not surprised. I'm sorry you went through that.
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Originally posted by Woggle
It's not just my mother. I have yet to have a single woman in my life that hasn't betrayed me in some way or the other. I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself.
woggle people get betrayed all the time.. again.. hearing this truely allows me to understand why your feeling the way you are.. but not all people are the same.. i've been betrayed, beaten, and more.. many times by many people in my life not only my ex husband(s) yes I had 2.. I was sexual abused by an uncle.. who then had the nerve to try and touch my daughter.. when I turned him in.. my entire family betrayed me even those he had also abused turned against me.. but I didn't turn against humanity.. there are good people out there.. you just have to find them.
Originally posted by Opium
Well G Golly Jeally beans, now I get it! I was worried for a minute. Don't let other woman pay for what you're mother did. I give you my blessings because it is very hard to grow up without either parent. But things do make more sense now since you revealed this little secret.
Not just my mother.
My former live in girlfriend that tried to press domestic abuse charges against me even though all the abuse was ta her hands. I never once hit her
My ex wife who cheated on me and then tried to take me to the cleaners in court even though she failed miserably.
I have had enough of tryong to eb a good man and treat women well. All I ever got for it was grief so now I am a jerk and they seem top respect me much more.
Originally posted by DacaInaru
no it doesn't justify his behavior but until such time as he works out his feelings of anger against her.. he will continue to feel this way..
Sorry I work in social services.. i've seen it all.
Then you already know he needs to just get over the past....what's done is done.....he's not only harming himself you know......
It's not just my mother. I have yet to have a single woman in my life that hasn't betrayed me in some way or the other. I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself.
You need to get beyond this. My dad left my mom when she was still pregnant, and later told me that I was his biggest mistake. Every single man I have ever dated seriously has TRASHED my heart and betrayed me. For years, I related my father's worth of me to my own - and I think I subconsciously sought out men who would see me and treat me the same way my father did, because if my father didn't love me, who would?? It took me a LONG time, but now I know that there are good apples, and there are bad apples, and I still love and respect men. I understand the differences between the ways in which men and women behave and communicate, and I REFUSE to label men in general to be the way my father or any of my exes have been. That said, I do know what men are capable of (both the good and the bad)...so my focus is to find one of the loyal, sincere, GOOD men out there. There really are plenty, just as there are plenty of good women out there. But with your attitude, you'll never find one.
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good one star.. lololol
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