Just out of curiosity? I don't have a story or any real reason for asking this...
I am just wondering, do gay men go to straight strip clubs and watch straight porn?
Ok maybe I am asking for a reason...
I have a lesbian friend who loves the straight strip clubs for obvious reasons, so I asked "well would you go to a male strip club?" She said "NO," that's not a turn on for her at all. I know it's different for lesbians and gay guys, cause obviously straight clubs/porno's are going to be a turn on for women seeing how it's more focused on women, but what about gay men? Any comments from gay men, straight men, straight girls, gay girls? Any comments??
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this is a totally dumb question. why would a gay man go to a strip club? he's not interested in viewing nude women and all the male customers there are hetero.
I'm only asking because like I said having this conversation with my friend, she said that men are not a turn on at all...
I had a bi-sexual male friend a few years back and he loved womens bodies, their form what have you, he also liked guys... so asking him was pointless because he swung both ways... I am just interested in what the difference is between lesbians and gay males. It doesn't matter really, just after reading all these posts Homosexuality ok or not etc. I think it's a fascinating subject and am doing research on it.
Originally posted by scared*shy
I'm only asking because like I said having this conversation with my friend, she said that men are not a turn on at all...
I had a bi-sexual male friend a few years back and he loved womens bodies, their form what have you, he also liked guys... so asking him was pointless because he swung both ways... I am just interested in what the difference is between lesbians and gay males. It doesn't matter really, just after reading all these posts Homosexuality ok or not etc. I think it's a fascinating subject and am doing research on it.
well, your friend was a lesbian, so i think it was natural to think men are not a turn-on...
i don't know how fascinating this subject could be when it's kind of pointless. i don't know how far your research can go with it, but good luck, i suppose.
I'm allowed to ask what you would consider a dumb question and not be ridiculed for it... I read dumb questions on here all the time, do you tell everyone that has a dumb question that or am I just special.
i am a gay man and yes i have been to the strip club with my friends a decent amount. i think it's fun to buy them lapdances and watch them drool all over themselves. i also like the occasional lap dance b/c when you tell the stripper that you're gay then they often don't mind so much if you touch. (in my experience it's common for gay men to like breasts).
Originally posted by booyou
(in my experience it's common for gay men to like breasts).
?! I've heard just the opposite from my gay friends. I guess everyone has fond memories of suckling at mom's breast. But why would a gay man find a woman's breast sexually attractive? Just when I thought I understood gay men a bit better.... Now I'm confused again!
I used to live in the strip capital of Oz (which funnily enough was started by the opening of the first gay clubs back in the 60's - allegedly for for all the sailors docking into port) and let me tell you that while it was OK for me to be dragged into gay/drag clubs with my gay male friends, they would never set foot in a straight strip club...
Its a funny thing - gay men will watch other men dressed up as women; gay women will watch women (from what you tell me); straight men will watch women - what do straight women get to look at???
I think that's a far more interesting study for you Scared Shy!!!
Its a funny thing - gay men will watch other men dressed up as women; gay women will watch women (from what you tell me); straight men will watch women - what do straight women get to look at???
I guess we could watch the male strip review, but I heard that most of those men are well... gay.
It's not that I care what gay males do for fun, I just thought it was an interesting subject to explore. I am finding now though through everyones responses I am the only one that thinks this way...
most women I've talked with are not even interested in that! For every male strip club there are probably 100 female strip clubs.
definitely not...those men are chees-ay and too fabio-esque for my taste.
come to think of it, i don't know any women who ever even thought fabio even remotely attractive, and i don't know any who went to a male review on purpose.
it's more of a joke, or a way to waste a night at a bachelorette party.
i'd rather have mine at a naked-lady emporium any day. and i know straight women who feel the same way.
Not exactly answering your question, but I think to be honest (and I'm straight may I add) I would rather go watch females strip than males, I dunno if its causa the steriotype male strippers have, big, bulky, up there own arses (no offence...) but I just dont find that kinda of man sexy! *waits for comments*
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