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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:01 PM   #1
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NC rule But with a twist
Yet another silly post,

This forum seems to be very proactive in the NC rule, My question is this its generalized and will not affect my ex different circumstances now.

But say Person A does the NC thing. Now Person B thinks ok, well NC from person A, I'll do the NC thing, and before you know it both people are doing the NC...

has not anyone thought of that? (Maybe I should have searched first - sorry MODS)\

Could there not be two people out there doing this beacuse of this so called Rule that could just be plain stupid if one person broke the ice?
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:07 PM   #2
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Re: NC rule But with a twist
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Yet another silly post,

This forum seems to be very proactive in the NC rule, My question is this its generalized and will not affect my ex different circumstances now.

But say Person A does the NC thing. Now Person B thinks ok, well NC from person A, I'll do the NC thing, and before you know it both people are doing the NC...

has not anyone thought of that? (Maybe I should have searched first - sorry MODS)\

Could there not be two people out there doing this beacuse of this so called Rule that could just be plain stupid if one person broke the ice?
The point of NC is for you to heal and move on. If you don't want to move on, then NC is not for you. LC might be the answer. I've always stuck to the notion that if you use NC you do it for YOU, not for them.

You ARE saying a lot when you say nothing at all.
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:14 PM   #3
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Re: NC rule But with a twist
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But say Person A does the NC thing. Now Person B thinks ok, well NC from person A, I'll do the NC thing, and before you know it both people are doing the NC...
I believe that is the entire point of NC, ZACK121. If both are in strict NC then one of two things will happen:

1) Neither will break NC forever and everything is over, or
2) One party will eventually break NC and that is the more desperate party
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:16 PM   #4
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I've done no contact with all my exes, and they did likewise.

To this day I haven't heard from any of them, nor they from me.

I guess that's how it's supposed to work... (didn't even know about LoveShack back then)
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:19 PM   #5
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I guess that's how it's supposed to work...
Yes, WESTERNXR.... now put up another pic of yourself cause I'm gettin sick of looking at that goofy grin
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:40 PM   #6
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LOL. I'm thinking about it... getting way too many comments on it (good and bad).
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:42 PM   #7
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Do you actually have hair underneath that hat of yours??? Come on, show us what ya got!
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Old 22nd June 2005, 2:58 PM   #8
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Do you actually have hair underneath that hat of yours??? Come on, show us what ya got!
I was wondering the same thing. Take off the hat.
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Old 22nd June 2005, 3:11 PM   #9
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I was wondering the same thing. Take off the hat.
I don't have any hair (chopped off what's left of it). I did have another photo posted, but that one looked too friendly, so I changed it. This one has more of a bite to it, to match my message.
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Old 22nd June 2005, 3:56 PM   #10
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I don't have any hair (chopped off what's left of it). I did have another photo posted, but that one looked too friendly, so I changed it. This one has more of a bite to it, to match my message.
Atleast put the full squatting picture as you have in the page where you cropped this avatar of yours. That will distract people's avatar from your head and cap
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Old 22nd June 2005, 5:32 PM   #11
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I want people to see me in their dreams instead of obsessing over my body... :}

Have we totally destroyed this thread or what?

Oh yeah, NC all the way.
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Old 22nd June 2005, 5:50 PM   #12
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Old 22nd June 2005, 5:50 PM   #13
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as long as this thread is hijacked, how do you get a pic on here?
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Old 22nd June 2005, 5:56 PM   #14
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as long as this thread is hijacked, how do you get a pic on here?
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Old 22nd June 2005, 11:28 PM   #15
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I don't think westernxer would be the same with a different pic, it's his trademark you know?
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