hey all,
so this guy i used to be in a tumultuous relationship with (love-hate, confused feelings, sexual tension, the whole schpeel) has now started purposely ignoring me. we never talk anymore, but we do see each other now and then at work, and he goes out of his way to avoid anyplace near me, totally avoiding all eye contact, signing offline REPEATEDLY as soon as i sign online, etc.
i'm a little confused. i don't even talk to him anymore. is he just trying to get my attention? i used to "ignore" him purposely, but it was because he did something wrong to me-- cheat on me. this hurt him a lot. but it hurt me too. now, i haven't done anything wrong to him. so would he have any reason to "get back" at me? do guys do stuff like that?
or am i just playing this whole thing up too much? he used to be crazy about me, and now that i don't talk to him anymore, he's trying to forget about me...?
my friends say it's either one of two things: he's truly trying to forget about me because he is still crazy about me but not ready to settle down, and the fact i may be with other men makes him irritated; OR, he just wants to get a power trip out of "ignoring" me, and indirectly using some wack technique to get my attention.
hmm?
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