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Old 10th June 2005, 7:49 PM   #1
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losing interest?

i think i'm starting to get mixed signals from this guy that i've been seeing for a few months. i just want to make sure i'm not being a sensitive girl....how do you all tell if someone is losing interest?
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Old 10th June 2005, 9:21 PM   #2
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Just a few things I can think of off the top of my head:

1. They have less time for you. They are 'busy' more often - more than usual.
2. They do more things without you than before.
3. The sex/making out gets dull, slows down, stops or he becomes very selfish (it becomes only about getting him off and he ignores your pleasure or acts like its a chore to have to do).
4. If he was saying "I love you" but then stops saying it.
5. He tells you he needs "space" or "time to think" or says he is "feeling confused."
6. He won't make plans too far in advance.
7. He doesn't want to meet your parents, or your friends - or makes excuses to not have to do that.
8. He suddenly has a girl "friend" he is taking time from you and giving to her.

What sort of things have you noticed with your guy that has you asking this question?
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Old 15th December 2005, 8:54 PM   #3
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peace out

I think you should not lose hope in him he'll come around.
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