[oannamarie]

Its been a while since I posted something. The last time I was on I had left my husband because I had feelings for a friend. My husband was abusive and a drug user. Me and my husband were seperated for about two months and went to counseling. We got back together and have been back together for about 10 months. I agreed in the beginning to call my husband often through out the day while at work to make him feel better about trusting me and that I would not see the other guy again (the other man works near my office building). I still call my husband but now he is really obsessive about it. I have to call him when I get off my bus and walk to work. I have to call him from the work phone to show him I am at work, I have to call him while I am walking to a restaurant to get lunch, I have to call him from work when I return and I have to call him while I am waiting for the bus. This is a little annoying and I have mentioned to him that he needs to really start trusting me a little more for our relationship to work. He recently has stopped having sex with me and when I initiate something with him he just gets me off and that is is. Today I called him while going to lunch and told him I would call him back after I checked out. I was in line for a while and he called me back as I was checking out yelling at me telling me he doesnt believe I have been wating that long (Which was only about five minutes) to check out and then he hung up on me. I tried to call him back and he would not answer the phone. I called him several times and when he answered the phone he said he was tired of my Sh***t. I am so confused. I am realy trying to work with him to gain his trust back. Our relationship has been going pretty good. He doesnt use drugs and he doesnt abuse me any more. I sent him a text message asking him what was wrong with him. I got a message back giving me a phone number of a lady who called me and wanted me to return her call and I'll talk with you when you get home. I am so upset. Should I leave since he thinks I am cheating? Is that what he wants. Any advice would be helpful. Some strategies on how to discuss all this with him this afternoon would be helpful as well.