GF left - Feel sick and cant eat

7th June 2005, 8:41 AM

My first GF of 8months left me 2 days ago by email and ever since I've had this horrible sick feeling of anxiety in my gut, its killed my appetite and I managed to loose half a stone of weight since she told me (i didn't want to loose any!). I'd always thought she was the perfect person for me - and I really cant imagine meeting anyone else that i'll like as much, and I dont see how I'm going to forget this girl. She says she only loves me as a friend and nothing more, and was basically "trialling" it with me because she though it'd get better, but our relationship was always awkward, i couldnt be myself. I thought that was something that would go with time - but she outta the blue dumped me and said she doesnt want to get back together. I understand that if she's not happy, she doesnt want to be with me, but i just have that feeling that she's making a mistake and that we make the perfect couple, if we get past our differences.
In a couple days I'm travelling to a friends to stay with them for a week - to keep me away from it all and away from contact with her or anyone that reminds me of her. In my mind, I still hope she'll change her mind and come back to me, but she says she wont.

Any advice?

And do you think that week of No Contact will make her change her mind?

Thanks for any help/opinion/advice