Well you'd think after getting caught lying my ex would put a stop to that kind of behavior, but I get the distinct feeling she's up to her same old tricks again. I've actually had it with her, and I'm planning on totally breaking her heart and leaving her in the cold. Now, she thinks that I want to repair our relationship, but I have just caught her in another lie (haven't told her though because it's for something stupid) and quite frankly I've had enough and I'm going to teach her a lesson this time. I know i've promised NC before, but this time I want to leave on my terms. I don't give a crap about being the better person or being nice, this girl deserves everything she's got coming to her.
I haven't really decided what I plan on doing, but I want it to be painful for her so that she knows how bad she has hurt me.
Yeah she lied and yeah shes a bitch but take it for what it is...leave her for good, and move on with your life.
My mother once told me ' Good things happen to good people' think about it.
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I say, don't. She'll get hers in the end and you won't have to have the guilt on your conscience.
It might seem like a good idea now but I promise you it will backfire. NO CONTACT is your friend. The best revenge is moving on, living life, and feeling good about yourself. Totally ignoring her existance and moving forward.
Wasting your mental energy on this sh*t is worthless.
in a strange way i feel like she deserves to get this from me. too many people in her life treat her too kindly, she needs someone to slap her upside the head. and frankly i'm never going to talk to her again and i dont really care about what is right or her feelings anymore. this is how i'm going to move on, and i really don't care about being the bigger person this time.
Now, she thinks that I want to repair our relationship...
Which is exactly how she is going to bring you to your knees yet again. You may think that you are strong enough to take it, but what if she convinces you that she's changed? What if she tells you that she loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you? What if looks up at you tears in her eyes and asks you to make love to her? You think you'll actually say no? Nope. She knows that too, and will see right through this anger and get right down to the truth: that deep down under all this anger you want her back.
Seriously, from reading your posts this girl has a grip on you, and has been able to trick you in the past. Giving her the opportunity to do so this time is a very, very bad idea. Once she gets you, it will that much harder to take when she crushes you again (and she will...)
The only way to get yourself out of this is to cut off contact completely and try never to see or talk to her again.
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Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia
Seriously, from reading your posts this girl has a grip on you, and has been able to trick you in the past. Giving her the opportunity to do so this time is a very, very bad idea.
The only way to get yourself out of this is to cut off contact completely and try never to see or talk to her again.
look I know what you guys are saying is true, and ideally I want to be able to follow them. however, too much damage has been done, there is no turning back for me. this girl is going to get what she has coming to her, and then some. after i'm done with her she won't want to ever do what she has done to another person again. i've decided i'm going to trick her into thinking i am falling in love with her again, and then when things are good between us i'm going to drop her like a rock without any explanation at all and never speak with her again. is this low? yes. is this immoral? yes. do i care at this point? hell no. 1 or 2 months ago i would never let myself do this, but now i don't care if i get bad karma for years, it'll be worth it.
no way man my heart has already moved on. i now realize she will never change. she had me fooled with her whole act, but i ain't buying it anymore.
and things can never stay perfect because she keeps screwing up. it's like she doesn't want peace, stability, and happiness. she's this cold manipulative bitch and she's going to get the biggest payback of her life when i'm done with her.
Originally posted by sanne
she's going to get the biggest payback of her life when i'm done with her.
Watch yourself punkass. You're the type to turn psycho in a sec and you'd do something stupid. Leave the girl alone. At this rate, I can hardly say I blame her. Who would want to be with you at this rate, seriously? GET A ****IN GRIP.
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Who would want to be with you at this rate, seriously? GET A ****IN GRIP.
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