Well here goes. It took me a while to put this top ten list together and it is not all inclusive by any means. If you follow these guidelines you'll be able to create attraction in women and also to keep them around long-term. It took me a long long time to learn this stuff so I though I would share.
I am sure there will be much criticism but bring it on, I say . Here's the list:
-be funny, generous, arrogant, sensitive, happy, assertive and a jerk all rolled up in one
-be nice and respectful when she treats you well
-be mean and nasty when she does not treat you well
-don't be there all the time for her and don't do everything she wants
-make her the center of your life when you are with her and be independent and have your -own interests when you are not with her
-make sure she knows you can exist fine without her in your life
-be the leader at all times and dominate when you have to
-make yourself number one but always keep her needs, wants and desires a close number two
-minimize jealousy and possessiveness. strong display of both good and bad emotions should be avoided
-only be friends with her in the context of a romantic relationship (this is very impt)
it is left off on purpose NICOLE20. no one can be honest all the time and women are just as dishonest as men are. many times one must outright lie to keep the peace.
My first instinct is to get pissed. But I liked it better the second time I read it. I really THOUGHT about it the second time around. I put it into perspective.
Strong men are a turn on.
And in regards to attitude, you've gotta be at both ends of the spectrum to keep women guessing.
I think it's a nice mix. I give you an "A".
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"Well it’s time to go home
And I ain't even done with the night." JcM
- And be a great LOVER and Go down South once in a while!
(very Important)
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The male brain is more compartmentalized than the female brain. Men can seperate things whereas women have a harder time cause their brains are all wired together in some inter-connected mish-mosh.
Actually, lying and manipulating should be number three. Tell the truth only once in a while. Treat her like she's an idiot. This will keep her interested, because she will always be wondering if your lying to her or not.
You pretty much described Mr. B there, so you'll get no argument from me.
My friend Mike said that his wee elderly grandmother shared with him the secret of making sure a woman never, ever leaves you... "treat her like sh*t and tell her that you love her."
I don't know if I agree for myself personally since I'm much too selfish to put up with being treated poorly, but I see a lot of people clinging on under those circumstances.
__________________ No man chooses evil because it is evil; he only mistakes it for happiness, the good he seeks. --Mary Wollstonecraft
Last edited by LucreziaBorgia; 29th April 2005 at 12:42 PM..
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Alphamale's guide to keeping women around
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