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Some questions which may or may not help
--- does the activity detract from other important activities?
--- do you use the activity to avoid dealing with things that discomfort you?
--- how do you feel about your use of it?
--- good, bad, happy, sad, fulfilled, drained?
---what about the models?
---have they been abused in the making of the product?
---is the sex depicted a celebration of life and Eros?
---or is it a depiction of power and dominance over someone-
in which that most intimate part of ourselves is used as a tool
to achieve this?
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