Husband had affair after 28 year of marriage

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My story is different, my husband went on holiday alone to Malaysia last October 2004. When I call him his voice changed, he did not want to talk to me, I knew something was not right, he either cut my off his mobile or said very little.
I asked him where he was staying, he told me he was staying with a friend.

On his return back home, he did not call me from the Airport, like he normally did. On his return, the 1st thing he said to me was “Do you know where I have been?”….”I went to see a fortune teller, while in Malaysia, the fortune teller asked me if I wanted to know about my wife, and the fortune teller said that you wife is having an affair”.
I laugh and said “this is news to me“, Of course I am not having an affair.
He said he “went to see 3 fortune teller, they all said the same thing“.
I told him it must have been the way you asked them.

We argued amongst every night, on the same topic. Also throw things at each other. For two week he slept in the spare bedroom. He did not even wanted to look at me. Eventually he believed me.

Some days he would come home and start it again, I just had a instinct, that another women is involve. I checked his mobile phones. Rang a few women’s number without any luck.

He then persuaded me to let him go again, because he had to see this fortune teller again. At first I refused, but he booked his tickets anyway, went to Malaysia end of January 05. This time he was going to take the video-camera with him.

The same happened again, I asked him where he was staying, he told me he was staying with a friend.
when I call him his voice changed, he did not want to talk to me at all. On the 1st day of his trip there, I asked him who are you with, he passed the mobile to another person and said “here talked to my wife“, I thought he might give the mobile to another customer, to my amazement a women answer the phone, “Hello, who are you” I asked her, She said “his friend”.
I must have called him every hour, his tone of voice got worst, “he told me to go to hell, he said “I don’t want you any more. Bla…bla….bla.
I just knew she was the other woman, he was having an affair with her. I all started in April 04, when he was there the 1st time.

I told this women “he loves me and he will not leave me, she said that was before I came in the picture“
I told her “We have been having sex every day since October“…I could hear her asking him, “you and her, been having sex every day since October“.
he said loudly …….“Tell her to go to hell!
Tell that ****ing bitch she is lying,
I never even touch her…”?
He took the telephone off her and told me “ Maybe I was having sex with you but thinking it was R”.
That went on for 2 weeks.
Now he is back, he said he never had an affair with ”R”,she is 13 years his junior.
But “R” change her mobile number and her home telephone number, she sent him 3 text messages-

pls don’t cal me any more. Enough is enough don’t bother 2 find me anymore u wont get me, let me live my own life, anyway I got nothing left 4 u! Only dissapointment bye

between us, its over pls don’t cal me anymore. I want 2 lead my life as per normal with my kids. at least u do it 4 my kids! If u doest want 2 be happy that’s ur problem but I want ! I already make my decision. So pls don’t waste ur time! Im leaving u 4 gd! Bye n take care!

No pls don’t bother 2 explain im no longer interested U really have shown me how much u love me!

He has now also changed his mobile number. I am so confused, did he or didn’t he.
I found hotel bills, for all his trips, when he said he was staying with friends. One bill had number of persons - 2. Checked in as mr& mrs. He was accusing me of having an affair to justify his affair.
Until today he is saying he never had an affair with “R”.
But I am no fool. Just can’t forgive him.
Every time I asked him about “R” he bring out the fortune tellers, stories about me.