Alright I just have a quick question, or maybe its just writing my thoughts down and seeing if anyone has anything to add, i dont know. Anyway, the past couple of years i've been going through some hard times involving my sexuality. I've hooked up with boys and i have to say all of them were enjoyable, but ive also hooked up with a girl before (i'm a girl, 17 yrs old). The girl thing was the result of a night involving plenty of liquor and i guess we both were just rather... horny that night. Anyway, we kissed and basically got to third base after a little while. The thing is, I LOVE guys and everything about them, i know i'll always be into them, but every now and then ill meet a girl and i just wont be able to get my mind off her. AS of right now there's a girl that i've pretty much become infatuated with. THe last girl i hooked up with i knew wasnt into girls because shes told me plenty of times and we've discussed it. But this girl could be just what ive been looking for. if that makes sense? I only know her because we have a class together and she and i also share a lot of the same friends. WE always flirt in class but i'm pretty sure its just innocent things that you dont even think about. The other night i hung out with one of my male friends as well as this girl and something about that night just struck me as different than normal. Sometimes I swear she tries to find ways to touch me or get my attention, though not always and i cant decide if its real or not. Although that night we were all just standing around in a store and i started leaning on a table and ended up spacing out on some random picture when all of the sudden i felt someone next to me. and this wasnt just like feeling the air move, she was actually leaning on me (like touching my side/hip etc i guess), full contact leaning. Now if she and I were close friends it wouldnt have even bothered me, but we're not close enough to actually lean on eachother or be a little physical, if that makes sense. Anyway, I acted without thinking and walked away from her, which now i really regret, but im not sure what to do? I can tell my friends all i want but it wont change whether or not i know what shes thinking about the whole thing. If I ask her i'm sure things will just get really weird between us, unless she actually feels the same about me. anyway, any advice?

[rox_2k]

hi there, i have some friends in a similar situation. from reading what you wrote, you obviously like your boys but your slightly bisexual. all that youve written made perfect sense to me, if you say that you are not close enough friends to be leaning on eachother and that she tries to get your attention most of the time or touches you then there must be something there, she most probably does like you although not everything is shown in contact. i think that asking her upfront straight away but be abit wierd and might scare her, i reckon you should try to be good friends with her get to know her better and vise versa and then ask her, i know this will take a while but in the end you'll know how she feels without scaring her. ill write some more later if i can think of anything else. hope it all works out for you

rachel x x x