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Act like you're not sure you want to marry him. That will fasten the procedure.
The fact that he wants to start living with you tells you that he is considering marrying you. It doesn't mean it will. He might want to marry you but not telling you yet or he simply might not be sure yet.
If you ask him directly, you will end up with an answer like "Let's try and live together and see how things work out. Then we'll decide!"
You're doing well, after a few months he wants to try the "real thing" with you. Be patient! If your life together is good, he will probably marry you. Show him your best sides and don't argue with him. Prove that you're the right one for him to marry. Then he will.
If you see that time is passing by (more than a year or two) you can actually ask him to discuss your future plans.
Guys see marriage in a different way from us. For them it's a severe loss of their independence, space, time, and financial freedom. The awareness of it hurts, but we have no choice. It takes two to tango. By forcing and rushing things you will lose a lot and gain nothing. I am telling you this from personal experience. He won't tell you if you ask him, so don't ask! Wait until he asks you.
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