Alphamale, my totally groovy friend don't sound so critical
I had a discussion on a date last night about how women are superficial. The whole human race is really, and some more than others. I don't see what is bad about a woman looking for a man with hot looks when men have been looking at women like meat with the size, the proportions, the hair, eyes, etc. for ages and in my perspective far more than women have been.
Maybe these hot guys get noticed first, but I will be honest the eye candy men dissapoint me more than the average joes' (no pun intended). Maybe the average joes work harder and make me happy, I don't know. It's human nature to go for someone with great looks. But to stay with someone based on it is just lame.
I am superficial and I will be the first one to lay it down as truth. If he looks like eye candy I am happy. But I also look for very real things. I think looking at superficial features is wrong if that is ALL that we care about. If I meet a hot guy whose dumb as a box of rocks or shallow inside I am not interested at all. I'd be happy to date an average guy who is great inside. But dating a short, bald, fat, hairy man with missing teeth and no money I will pass. Maybe that is superficial of me but there has to be attraction inside and out, bottom line. I think we are all wired this way to a point.