[chrisbiscuit]

I am madly in love with my bestfriend. She has always been there for me and now i have just realised how madly in love I am with her. But she is about to get married to a guy who really mistreats her. This isn't sour grapes. the guy has beat her before now becuase she came round to mine.

I have never paid attention to her but i was looking at her the other day and I suddenly realise wshe is the one for me, she is intelligent beautiful and my best friend. How can I tell her? I want her to know even if she doesn't pick me as I will always be there for her no matter what.

I love her so much it is physically hurting me. What can i do?

[VirginiaBob]

Make her an offer.

[Fritz]

Originally posted by chrisbiscuit
I am madly in love with my bestfriend. She has always been there for me and now i have just realised how madly in love I am with her. But she is about to get married to a guy who really mistreats her. This isn't sour grapes. the guy has beat her before now becuase she came round to mine.

I have never paid attention to her but i was looking at her the other day and I suddenly realise wshe is the one for me, she is intelligent beautiful and my best friend. How can I tell her? I want her to know even if she doesn't pick me as I will always be there for her no matter what.

I love her so much it is physically hurting me. What can i do?

Tell her how you feel, that she's an idiot for marrying a guy who beats her, and then if you have any brains at all, move on with your life and stop being her emotional friend/security blanket if thats not what you really want out of the "friendship".

[Mr Spock]

Watch "my best friend's wedding" and if she comes around again saying he's beaten her take her to the police station to give a statement.


Don't involve yourself in their train wreck relationship. You feel protective-don't confuse it.