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When fairness is a issue, Mediation doesn't work
For all you people who want to mediate your divorce, let me offer a firsthand experience.
Mediation is only as worthwhile as the people involved in it.
My STBXW, Aka BEEATCH! Has the strangest notion of fairness that I have EVER heard.
She simply wants everything for nothing. She figures the law is all there is to the matter and nothing else is even relevant.
Well, I say this. There is no value in spending money for mediation if the disagreements are not based on a mutual understanding of fairness and balance.
When that isn't there. mediation is a joke.
I think this road is going to be long and hard. And I stand to lose EVERYTHING I've worked for.
Actually, I already have.
as always
MA
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