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Old 25th January 2005, 2:59 PM   #1
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When fairness is a issue, Mediation doesn't work

For all you people who want to mediate your divorce, let me offer a firsthand experience.

Mediation is only as worthwhile as the people involved in it.

My STBXW, Aka BEEATCH! Has the strangest notion of fairness that I have EVER heard.

She simply wants everything for nothing. She figures the law is all there is to the matter and nothing else is even relevant.

Well, I say this. There is no value in spending money for mediation if the disagreements are not based on a mutual understanding of fairness and balance.

When that isn't there. mediation is a joke.

I think this road is going to be long and hard. And I stand to lose EVERYTHING I've worked for.

Actually, I already have.

as always

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