[Bohdi10]

Yesterday I posted something about me feeling bad about getting into an arguement with this girl I took to the football game on Sunday. Now that i talked with one of my friends and my brother I got another take on it.

I took this girl to a playoff game and we ended up getting drunk because she wanted to. One of the girls she works with had her husband at the game. SHe said that her friend at work doesn't like rachel talking to her husband. Well I saw why. SHe was very flirtatious with him. When I would go to the bathroom during the game, she would be over on his lap and snuggling with him. At one point she went to get food and grabbed his hand and walked with him holding hands to the food stand. I didn't get why she was like that with him. Then we went to a bar afterwards with them and he had his hands all over her and was like really flirtatious with him again. I was confused at how weird this was and of course the drunken jealousy came out. ON the way home I told her i didn't get what was going on there, and that it was weird. I told her i liked her and we got in this arguement.

I think i'm in the wrong for being drunk and saying that she was acting like a bitch. I felt bad about it and still feel bad today. But is that right of her to be all over him in front of me and even all over him in general? he is a married man, and is with someone she works with. It really was shocking to me. let me know your thoughts.

[LucreziaBorgia]

From their behavior it sounds like they already had laid some groundwork, so to speak. Are you certain they didn't already have something going on? Where was this guy's wife during this time he and Rachel were all over each other?

As for calling her a bitch - did she know how much you liked her before you took her to the game? If she knew this, and got you to take her to a game - where she proceeded to get drunk and hang all over a married man in front of you, then yes. She's a royal bitch. That was mean, inconsiderate, and outright bitchy - to you, and to this guy's wife! If she didn't know - then what she did with this guy was still low class.

[morrigan]

As far as her actions with this guy, it's her business. However, I would consider what happened to be a big red flag about her behavior.

As you're not dating her seriously, let her deal with her own sticky situations. Hell, I wouldn't date her again anyway.

[mt_joy]

If you were previously wanred about her bad behavior with this married man and you still took her out, you were asking for trouble. He is married (and he lets her do that stuff, which is another subject completely) and she was all over him. Out of all the guys there, including you, she chose a married man. That just shows what kind of person she is and should be sending up a major red flag with you. Do you really want that kind of girlfriend?

Joy
MT Student